Living with foster siblings can be tough, especially when you feel like a prisoner in your own home. One teenager has had enough and wants to move out to live with their dad. However, their mom and stepdad don’t seem to understand where they’re coming from and are accusing them of exaggerating. After a heated argument, the teenager was kicked out of the house and is now being called selfish by their foster siblings and extended family. But is the teenager really in the wrong for wanting to leave? Read on for the full story and decide for yourself.
Teenager shares struggles of living with foster siblings and restrictions.

Teens living under strict rules want to move out

Teenager dreams of moving in with dad despite obstacles

Teen feels unheard at home and wants to move out

Teen discusses desire to move in with dad due to conflict

Teen argues with parents, considers moving in with dad

Teenager fights for right to live with dad amidst foster care

Facing family backlash after leaving difficult living situation

Feeling trapped at home and seeking validation from dad. AITA?

Fourteen-year-old struggles with crowded foster home with nine kids.

Teenager seeks dad’s help in tough foster home situation ❤️

Teen wants to move in with dad to help emergency fosters ❤️

Teenager feels trapped at home due to foster siblings
Living with foster siblings is difficult for a teenager who feels like a prisoner in their own home. They can’t play music or video games and have to let the foster kids pick movies and TV shows. They’ve been begging their dad to let them move in, but their mom and stepdad don’t understand. When the teenager mentions staying with their dad to their cousin, an argument ensues, and the teenager is accused of making things up. They are eventually kicked out of the house and family members have blocked them on social media. The teenager’s dad and aunt support them, but they are wondering if they are in the wrong for feeling the way they do. Read on to see what people have to say about the situation.
Fostering 9 kids at the expense of one? NTA, go dad!

Validating a teenager’s feelings about a difficult home situation

Red flags in foster care situation, NTA for considering move.

Validated teenager struggles to express feelings effectively in tough situation

Validating support for a teen’s desire to be heard ❤️

Supportive reply to NTA comment receives a dismissive response.

Aunt to the rescue! ♀️ NTA teen’s valid feelings matter.

Encouraging support for teenager’s decision to move in with dad ❤️

Foster parent’s decision valid but teenager’s feelings are valid too

Teen seeks refuge with aunt due to aggressive stepdad. NTA.

Questioning the foster parents’ motives.
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Validating the teenager’s feelings and calling out bad parenting

Taking control of her own life and feeling validated

Teenager not at fault for wanting to move in with dad
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Foster kids favored over teen in difficult living situation. NTA stands up.

Stepdad crosses the line, fostering at expense of step-child.

Restrictions on music and video games? NTA comment sparks debate

Growing up with foster siblings can be tough, NTA for leaving.

Teen deserves better than being confined and ignored at home.
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Let’s focus on helping OP, not blaming her parents. ❤️

Teenager seeks to move in with dad due to difficult living conditions

Foster care decisions should consider everyone’s feelings

Neglectful mother and stepfather, NTA for wanting to leave

Teenager expresses difficult family situation with reluctance to report abuse

Foster kids deserve care without burdening others. Honesty matters.

You deserve a normal life Move in with your dad ❤️

User expresses support for teenager’s desire to live with dad.

Supportive comment encourages teen to prioritize own happiness and well-being ❤️

Teen wants to live with dad after feeling neglected at home

Self-care is important, don’t let anyone shame you for it ♀️

NTA. Foster care is a huge commitment that can be overwhelming

Validating emotions: You’re not the a**hole, stand your ground

Validating a teenager’s emotions and needs at home ❤️

Shocking number of foster kids, commenter not the a**hole

Foster sister’s post is next level gaslighting. NTA.

Validating comment supporting teenager’s decision to move in with dad.

Growing up in a foster home can be tough. You’re NTA ❤️

Commenter shares similar experience with prioritizing foster children over biological children.

Empathetic comment supporting teenager’s desire to move in with dad ❤️

NTA – Mother and stepdad neglecting their child, fostering unsafely.

Teen wants to move in with recovering alcoholic dad working 70hrs/wk

Stepfather may be lying about teen’s behavior. Support for dad’s help.

Teenager deserves emotional support from parents. NTA.

Consider looking into Emotional Neglect symptoms for difficult living situations.

Big house for a big family

Unfortunately, dad doesn’t pay child support. No bigger place planned.

Valid feelings should not be dismissed. NTA

Listen to your dad and aunt. NTA for speaking up

Commenter sympathizes with teenager’s difficult living situation with 9 foster siblings.

Commenter empathizes with teenager’s difficult living situation.

Validating the emotional neglect of a foster child. ✨

Neglected by parents, empathized by commenters

Validating teenager’s feelings and supporting their decision to move out

Former foster parent expresses shock at OP’s living situation

Choose your own family, NTA. Your feelings matter too

Stay strong and record interactions. Consider motive behind fostering.
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Living with aunt a better option? NTA suggests commenter.

A teenager in a difficult living situation with too many foster siblings.

Feeling ignored and put last, teenager seeks father’s help

NTA needs to escape from a chaotic household

Don’t let others gaslight you, your feelings are valid

NTA deserves better, and has a clever solution for noise-cancellation

Validated by aunt and dad, OP blocks toxic foster sister and relatives
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Advocate for yourself, OP. Your well-being matters.

Parents neglecting child due to fostering, NTA for wanting move ❤️

Teen feels unheard and unsupported by unsympathetic parents

Standing up for yourself is important.

Neglected at home, seeking support and validation from online community.

Teen wants to move in with dad; NTA, family counseling suggested.

Choosing not to be a foster sibling doesn’t make you a**hole ♀️

Don’t let others invalidate your feelings ❤️ You deserve happiness

Validating the need for attention and care from parents ❤️
