Babies can be a handful, especially when they’re crying uncontrollably. For one 14-year-old girl, her sister’s baby’s screaming fits are just too much to handle. After a disagreement with her older sister, the young girl decided to avoid helping with the baby altogether, even hiding behind the couch to avoid being handed the crying infant. Now, her parents are telling her that she was being immature and that her sister was just sleep-deprived and stressed. But was she really being selfish? Some might say she was justified in refusing to subject anyone to her terrible singing. Read on to find out if she’s the a**hole or not.
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Teen refuses to calm screaming baby after argument with sister
A teenager has sparked a debate after refusing to calm her sister’s crying baby following an argument. The 14-year-old had previously sung a song to soothe the baby, but stopped after her older sister criticized her singing. When the baby began crying during a meltdown, the teenager refused to calm her with her singing, leading to a standoff between the sisters. The teenager even went so far as to hide from her sister to avoid being forced to help. While some have criticized the teenager for being immature and selfish, others have pointed out that she is not responsible for her sister’s child and should not be forced to do something she is uncomfortable with. What do you think? Should the teenager apologize or was she justified in her actions? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
NTA. 14-year-old shouldn’t be forced to care for sister’s baby.

14-year-old hides from baby, commenters relate, NTA

No obligation to babysit at 14. NTA, sister should learn.

Being a second parent to your sister’s baby is not okay

Sister’s baby, sister’s responsibility. NTA for setting boundaries
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Don’t let anyone force you to babysit
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Don’t let your sister force you into becoming a second mom.

Don’t let your sister pawn her responsibilities off on you

Setting boundaries with family is tough, even tougher with kids.

14-year old prioritizes own life over sister’s baby. NTA

Don’t let parentification ruin your life. NTA

14-year-old NTA for avoiding sister’s screaming baby.

Don’t blame the teen for avoiding an unwanted responsibility

Sing off! Teen hides from baby and sister, but is NTA.

Avoiding baby duties like ♂️ , and that’s okay

Setting boundaries as a young adult, consequences explained ✋

Standing up for yourself is never the wrong move

Avoiding sister’s baby after argument, but communication is key

Commenter suggests colic, but parent disagrees. Baby needs help.
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14-year-old stands up to sister’s parenting expectations ♀️

Amusing comment about funny nickname for sister. Not the a**hole.

Stand up for yourself! NTA wins this round.

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No obligation to help ungrateful sister with screaming baby

Don’t let anyone force you to babysit

Stand your ground and explain calmly to your parents

Avoiding screaming babies: a smart move

No obligation to help with screaming baby. Sister needs manners

Sister insulted her way out of free babysitting services ♀️

Projection much? Commenter is NTA for avoiding screaming baby.

Taking a stand and making a statement without hurting anyone

Don’t want to babysit? NTA, you have the right to refuse ♀️

Avoiding screaming baby but building special bond through recorded singing

No baby duty for you! NTA and stress-free

Choose to help or not, parenting is not your job

Don’t want to babysit? Don’t blame the teen.

Commenter finds humor in situation, deems OP not the a-hole

Don’t be a babysitter for free. NTA

Singer or screaming baby? NTA chooses wisely

NTA for refusing to take Roxy. Della needs to genuinely try first

Clever hiding spots and payment demands for babysitting win

Parenting can be hard, but entitlement is not justified.

No need to parent the parents. NTA

14-year-old not obligated to help with sister’s baby, NTA

14-year-old refuses to babysit sister’s child, NTA

Stand up for yourself and refuse to be forced into babysitting

You don’t owe anyone your time or energy.

Set boundaries, NTA. You’re not a babysitter or slave

Empowering response to young mother’s decision to keep child

Teen mom receives tough love from commenters on parenting responsibilities.

Commenter asks for song name, gets wholesome response ❤️

Don’t let them guilt-trip you You’re NTA

Teen hides from sister to avoid being handed screaming baby

Sister has a baby, leaves college, insults you, and expects help

Teen refuses to babysit sister’s screaming baby, parents guilt-trip. NTA

NTA for hiding, but considerate of sister’s possible struggles

NTA suggests singing to own baby.

Don’t let entitled family members take advantage of you ♀️

Empathetic advice for new mom, don’t be a doormat.

Don’t feel guilty for not helping with your niece

You’re not the a**hole for avoiding your sister’s responsibilities ♀️

You don’t owe anyone a babysitting service ♀️

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Supporting a stressed teen who didn’t sign up for parenting
