There are a lot of things that could make us feel like we are in a different reality, but one of the most common things that are associated with this feeling is a situation when you do something nice for someone and then you get insulted in return.
For example, say you were walking on a street in New York, and you gave someone five dollars for something that they needed, and then they immediately spit on your shoes. Or you gave a cousin of your wife expensive materials, and then she told you that you are not even close friends.
If you think that this is not possible, then look at this story .
Couple spends big $$ for a wedding they won’t attend, only to find out it has been downgraded

A generous offer to help friends out with weddings and events without charging

Couple spent $2K for wedding they weren’t invited to and get shocked when couple downgrades it

Couple realizes they weren’t invited to their cousin’s wedding after spending $2K – “we downsized and didn’t have space for you”

Couple spends $2K on materials to help create a wedding they aren’t invited to, only to be hurt and insulted when the couple downgrades the wedding

Couple spends money on wedding they’re not invited to, then gets upset when couple downgrades it

Couple receives “threatening calls” from wedding party for not attending

Couple charged for a wedding they weren’t invited to, and were met with **harassment** when they asked for full payment.

A couple spent a lot of money on a wedding they weren’t invited to and felt disrespected when the couple downgraded the event.

A couple is feeling hurt and insulted after spending $2K for a wedding they weren’t invited to
When a couple’s cousin came to them in need of signage, banners, guest books, and life-sized cutouts for her wedding, they offered to help out for free, as they often do for friends’ weddings. The couple was confused when they received no wedding invitation, and then the cousin’s wedding planner told them they needed all the items by a certain date.
When they reached out to the cousin, they were told the wedding had been downsized, and they weren’t invited. Hurt and insulted, the couple billed the cousin for the cost of materials, only to receive threats and harassment in return.
Read on to find out what people had to say about this situation and if the couple was in the wrong. Here is Reddit’s reactions and comments.
Cousin gets *a-hole tax* for wedding!

NTA:

NTA: charging distant family

NTA: Don’t give $2K to a wedding you’re not invited to!

NTA: Couple used them

♀️ Couple not invited to wedding, so they downgrade

NTA: They *a-hole*-ly didn’t invite you

Family or vendor?

Not the a**hole:

NTA? Document all calls & texts!

NTA.

NTA: Couple’s threats?

NTA – ⭐️Best wedding gift⭐️

Audacity of some people!

Negotiating a price cut for uninvited guests?

NTA stands up for a 2K favor!

NTA – You’re right!

NTA: Don’t expect free work from friends and family.

NTA: You don’t owe them

NTA AT ALL: Cousin steals from business

No free work!

NTA: Guests give gifts

NTA! Cousin is a total Client From Hell

Close friends and family

Couple spends big $$, but not invited

Ex-friend’s betrayal

NTA for charging full price!

NTA: Business is business

♀️ NTA! ♂️

NTA: ♂️ They were using you!

Wondering what happened next?

NTA? File a small claims document!

NTA: Couple tried to scam

Payment before delivery

NTA: Vendor is offering a deal
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NTA: Couple should pay for materials despite not being invited to the wedding.

Toxic weddings

u/BallsackJuicer is NTA!!

YTA or NTA?

An opinion on wedding drama

NTA: Discounts For Close Friends

NTA
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NTA: Devious minds at work

NTA: Couple apologizes for discount mistake ♂️

NTA! Don’t deliver to them.

Family excluded from wedding ♀️

NTA: Don’t get free stuff!

NTA: ♂️

NTA: Not close enough to go to the wedding but still want your expensive custom work as a gift

NTA: Pay the

NTA: Stick to your guns!

A**hole tax?
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NTA: Charging for materials for uninvited wedding guests!

NTA: Laughing at ‘free merchandise’

Should they charge full price?

Friends? NTA

Family drama

Charge full price

NTA: Don’t give a $2K ‘gift’ to a wedding you weren’t invited to!

NTA says “No discount!”

NTA – Communication breakdown?

Hang up & block!

NTA: Charge them full price

NTA: Charge full service

Tacky and NTA:
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NTA. WTF planet is she living on?

NTA and full price!
