A young mother confronts her friend for repeatedly ditching her and feels neglected. When she finally decides to confront her friend, things escalate quickly. Was she justified in her outburst or did she overreact? Click to read more.
Unexpected pregnancy leads to fallout with friend, AITA for snapping?
Childless friend a gem? OP ponders ditcher’s motives, AITA snaps?
SAHM tries to make friends but gets ditched.
Friend wants to hang out but I don’t have time ♀️☕
Friend cancels plans due to child, am I wrong to snap?
Feeling neglected and wondering if friend ended friendship, AITA?
Friend prioritizes partying over friendship, OP feels hurt and rejected
Feeling hurt when friend rejects kid-friendly hangout plans, relatable?
Friendship ends over child, OP snaps, was it justified?
Friend ditches mom for child, calls out swearing, AITA?
Friend suggests partner babysit, mom snaps, friendship ends.
Setting boundaries with friends: ♀️ or meddling in marriage?
Friend called OP selfish a**hole after argument over child
Reconsidering actions after friend chooses to end relationship, AITA?
Did she overreact or is her friend being insensitive? ♀️
Having a child can change the dynamics of friendships, especially when your friends don’t have kids. In this post, a woman shares her frustration with her best friend who seems to be distancing herself since the birth of her child. Despite numerous invitations to come over, the friend keeps suggesting they go out for drinks, which the mother cannot do as she is a stay-at-home mom. After the friend ditched her to go out with others, the mother snapped and accused her of being an awful friend. The friend retorted that she doesn’t want to spend time with her when there’s always a kid around. The argument escalated, and the friend suggested the mother’s partner could take care of the child once in a while so she could have a break. The mother kicked her out, and now she wonders if she overreacted or if her friend was being insensitive. Do you think her friend should have made more of an effort to visit her at home? Or was the mother too harsh in her reaction? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
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Age doesn’t determine drinking habits , but YTA for snapping.
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Friend is tired of always going to OP’s house. YTA.
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Your partner should help with childcare, but YTA for snapping.
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Commenter receives unsolicited advice, claps back.
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Commenter acknowledges a soft-YTA for offering a low-quality alternative –
Friend expresses concern, suggests hiring a babysitter. YTA for snapping.
Commenter suggests prioritizing friends, YTA sentiment.
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Harsh YTA comment with no sympathy
Friend calls OP out for neglecting their one-on-one time, YTA.
Friend accuses mother of neglecting their friendship, YTA according to them.
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Commenter thinks OP is in the wrong for expecting friend to spend time with their child. ♀️
Friend wants to go out, YTA for not compromising ♀️
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Commenter calls OP a**hole for not accommodating friend with child
