Update: AITA for Revealing the Real Reason Why Me and My Dad Were Never Close?

This post is an update on a previous post that received a lot of love and support. A man revealed to his dad’s wife the real reason why he and his dad were never close. The update reveals that the dad and his wife are splitting up due to the man’s revelation. The man is struggling with guilt, but the wife reassured him that he made the right choice.

The man met with his dad and had a conversation about his mom. The conversation was emotional, but in the end, the dad apologized for trying to put the man in a difficult position. The man is processing his emotions with therapy and support from his family and his girlfriend.

The update is unexpected and shocking, revealing the powerful impact that family secrets can have on relationships.

Updates on OP’s post about strained relationship with father.

Internet moms provide emotional support in heartfelt update on family issues ❤️

Divorce news breaks family apart, leaving daughter in awkward position

Mom tells me truth about dad, leaves him. Grateful for honesty.

Dealing with the guilt of a failed marriage.

Divorcee receives unexpected call from dad amidst heartbreak.

Protective mom blocks dinner with dad, causing mental distress

Reconnecting with estranged father – a lesson learned about listening

Father shares emotional regret over son’s mom’s death

Rebuilding relationships can be tough, but honesty goes a long way

Family conflict resolved with tears, therapy, and support ❤️

‍ A father’s love and regret ‍

The aftermath of revealing the truth about a broken relationship. After his dad’s wife decided to leave him, the author was left to process the guilt and heartbreak. While the father and son had a difficult conversation about the past and the death of the author’s mother, they both agreed that a relationship was not possible.

The author’s girlfriend and family provided support during this emotional time. Read on for the comments and reactions to this heartbreaking story .

Commenter and replies condemn the father’s actions and empathize with the late wife.

OP’s revelation helped ex-wife see dad’s true colors

Honesty is the best gift. OP did the right thing ❤️

Father blames OP for mother’s death, but it’s not their fault. Support from aunt and girlfriend helps OP through the pain. Commenters agree father’s logic is flawed and selfish.

Don’t blame yourself, your dad is projecting

Empathetic comment and replies provide support for OP’s difficult situation ❤️

Finding family in those who love you ❤️

Heartbreaking comment about a cruel-hearted father

Wishing OP the best in healing from their father’s horribleness ❤️

Terrible dad blamed, commenter offers support and sympathy.

The tragic story of coerced pregnancy and its aftermath.

A comment about blaming oneself for a loved one’s death.

Finding a new family member? ❤️

Heartbreaking story of a father who blamed his child for wife’s death

Heartwarming reply to OP, who revealed mistreatment from their dad ❤️

The twisted logic of blaming a child for their mother’s death

OP’s honesty may have led to a divorce

A heartwarming message from a mother to a son ❤️

Blaming an infant for your issues? ‍♂️

Heartwarming support for OP’s aunt as a better parental figure ❤️

Commenter empathizes with OP and calls out dad’s unfair blame.

Find true love and move on *in spite of him*

Honesty is the best policy You did the right thing!

Projection and guilt can be destructive. Good on you OP

Setting yourself free from a lying father is a happy ending

Love is in the air!

A heartfelt comment supporting the OP against their abusive father.

Heartwarming reply from a loving dad ❤️

A thought-provoking reply to the blame game

Heartfelt support for OP’s difficult situation. ❤️

OP’s dad blamed them for mom’s death, now blames them for divorce

Empathetic internet stranger offers support and encouragement ❤️

Your dad needs help, don’t blame yourself for his mistakes

Kudos to OP for exposing the truth and helping the wife

Heartfelt support for OP’s healing and closure. ❤️

A heart-wrenching story of a father’s neglect and a mother’s love ❤️

Heartbreaking reminder that grief affects us all in different ways

Don’t blame yourself! Your dad is the reason for the split

Don’t blame yourself, they didn’t split because of you

Empathetic comment applauding OP’s strength and growth despite neglect.

Don’t blame yourself You’re innocent in this situation

Don’t blame yourself. You did the right thing ✔

Commenter calls out toxic attitude of OP’s dad, sparks discussion

Heartbreaking comment on losing a part of a loved one.

NTA. Commenter empathizes and encourages OP to prioritize their well-being.

A scathing comment on a father’s behavior, devoid of redemption

Heartfelt support for OP’s tragic loss and father’s abandonment. ❤️

Commenter blames OP’s father for their mother’s death

Positive closure as OP receives apology from dad.

Commenter expresses intense anger towards father with dark humor.

Parent blames child for mother’s death – not okay

Heartfelt support for OP and admiration for SM/ex’s actions ❤️

Commenter blames father for blaming them for mother’s death

Don’t blame yourself for their divorce, it’s not your fault! ❤️

Baffled deadbeat blaming innocent baby for mother’s death

Mom’s love was priceless, dad’s selfishness is inexcusable. You’re amazing ❤️

A heartfelt comment about a father’s failure and moving on ❤️

Heartwarming support from a fellow mom