A woman lost her husband in an accident and was devastated. Her sister came to stay with her and help out, but things got out of hand when her sister’s boyfriend was caught in the woman’s and her late husband’s bedroom. The woman was furious and kicked her sister and her boyfriend out.
Her parents got involved and took sides. Read the full story to find out who was in the wrong and whether the woman was justified in her actions.
Tragic accident leaves young widow to cope with devastating loss.

Grieving widow gets help from sister, but things quickly escalate.

Sister’s boyfriend oversteps boundaries in shared apartment

Sister violates agreement, gets kicked out of late husband’s room

Sister caught in late husband’s bedroom with boyfriend

Caught my sister in my bed with my late husband’s friend

Sister caught in late husband’s bedroom results in family feud

Family drama ensues after sister caught in late husband’s room

Grieving widow kicks sister out after finding her in her bedroom
Losing a spouse is one of the most challenging experiences anyone can go through. Coping with the loss can be an emotional rollercoaster and sometimes it’s hard to know how to deal with it. The situation is even worse when you have to deal with people who don’t understand your pain.
This is what happened to a woman who lost her husband in an accident two months ago. Her sister came to stay with her to help around the apartment. But after the sister’s boyfriend started acting like he owned the place, the situation became unbearable. Things came to a head when the woman returned home to find her sister and her boyfriend in her and her late husband’s bedroom.
The woman lost her temper and kicked them both out of the apartment. Her parents came to try to make peace, but the woman refused to talk things out.
What do you think of this situation ? Have you ever had to deal with people who didn’t understand your grief? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
NTA! Sister and her boyfriend violated OP’s space and privacy. So sorry for your loss

Sister disrespects OP’s loss by having sex in their bed NTA

Defending boundaries during grieving is justified. NTA
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Sister and her boyfriend borrow late husband’s bedroom, get kicked out

NTA. Commenters suspect parents sent sister as a break.

NTA commenter calls out sister’s gross behavior, gets relatable reply

Sister’s disrespectful act leads to justified eviction. Condolences

Supportive comment recommends therapy for coping with sister’s behavior. ❤️

Sister’s invasion of late husband’s bedroom – NTA’s privacy violated.

Commenter expresses shock and disbelief over sister’s behavior.

Setting boundaries is important, even in grief.

Respect the house, respect the rules. NTA

Respect the *privacy* of others’ bedrooms! ️

Respect OP’s boundaries, NTA.

Respect the boundaries of others’ homes
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Betrayal by sister during grief, NTA.

Following rules is important, even in times of grief.

Sister crosses the line, commenter supports NTA’s decision.

NTA kicks sister out after disrespectful behavior in marital home

Grieving widow catches sister f***ing in her bed. NTA.

21-year-old sister disrespects late husband’s bedroom, gets kicked out. #NTA ♀️

NTA for kicking out sister and her boyfriend from your bedroom

NTA. Sleeping with someone’s late spouse is beyond trashy

Sister caught in late husband’s bedroom, commenter supports OP.

Sister crossed the line, NTA for kicking her out

Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out family’s behavior ♀️

Kicking out sister for disrespecting late husband’s memory. #NTA

Cultural differences in dealing with grief. NTA for setting boundaries.

Clear NTA judgement, no room for debate ♀️

Sister gets kicked out for crossing a line. NTA.

Setting boundaries is important NTA

Sister disrespects private space, commenter suggests emphasizing it for clarity.

Sister kicked out of late husband’s bedroom, NTA seeks new roommate.

Sister caught in late husband’s room, commenter says NTA

Supporting a fellow widow’s decision to kick out disrespectful sister.

Setting boundaries with family can be tough

Sister crosses a line, gaslights and blames OP for it

Empathetic response to woman’s tragic loss. ❤️

Sister caught in late husband’s bedroom defends with weak excuse

Sister and friend both crossed the line, NTA
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Setting boundaries with family during grief.
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Kicking your sister out? NTA! She crossed so many boundaries

Sister uses apartment for selfish reasons, gets kicked out

Supportive comment in a sad situation.

21-year-old sister disrespects late husband’s home, NTA for kicking her out

Sister caught in late husband’s bed, but OP is wrong?

Sister’s boyfriend had no right to be there, NTA

NTA for kicking sister out, but parents should have intervened

Respect the sacred home. Sister needs to grow up

Sister and her boyfriend disrespected sacred space, NTA.

Condolences and support for woman who rightfully kicked sister out.

Bedroom is sacred. Kicking sister out is completely justified
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Supportive comment defends woman’s decision to kick sister out ❤️

Sister caught in late husband’s room, NTA kicks her out

Sister used you for a hookup spot. You’re NTA

Heartfelt support for OP who lost husband and kicked out sister.

NTA: Having sex on someone else’s bed is a huge violation

Clear-cut judgment. NTA says it all.

Sister’s betrayal is beyond the pale. You owe her nothing

Sister violates grieving woman’s privacy, gets kicked out. NTA

Protect your boundaries and don’t feel guilty about it

Take control of your own home , NTA.

Commenter supports woman’s decision to kick out disrespectful sister.
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Sister allows boyfriend to throw away property, violates boundaries, NTA

Sister slept with her late husband’s bedroom – OP is NTA

Suspicious boyfriend behavior raises questions for commenter

Empowering response to sister’s betrayal. #NTA

Commenter supports OP’s decision to kick out disrespectful family members

NTA. Sleeping with your late husband in your bed is gross.
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