A father seeks advice after refusing to make his son cut his hair for his uncle’s wedding. The 15-year-old was asked to be the ‘flower dude’, but family conflict arose over the son’s curly locks. The stepfather threatened to seat the son in the general audience if he did not cut his hair, while the mother insisted that it was a formal wedding and the son should comply. The situation escalated when the fiancée demanded final approval of the son’s hairstyle. The father is now questioning if he is the a**hole for not forcing his son to cut his hair. Read on for more details of this family feud.
Breaking gender norms: Father supports son’s hair for wedding role

Dad stands up for son’s hair despite pressure from brother

Dad stands up for son’s hair at brother’s wedding ♂️

Controlling sister-in-law causes family drama, even in emergencies

Dad stands up for son’s hair at brother’s wedding!

Stepfather threatens to exclude son from wedding over long hair

Mom wants grandson’s hair cut for wedding, dad disagrees

Son’s long hair causes drama at brother’s wedding, father speaks out

Defending my son’s right to keep his hair long

Father stands up for son’s hair at brother’s wedding
A father’s refusal to make his 15-year-old son cut his hair for his uncle’s wedding has caused a family feud. The son was asked to be the ‘flower dude’ at his uncle’s wedding, and since then, the prospective sister-in-law has made comments about his hair. Despite agreeing to groom and style his hair, the father refused to make his son cut it. The drama escalated when the stepfather told the son he would not be fitted for his tux unless he cut his hair. The mother also supports the haircut. The family is now divided, and the father is considering not even attending the wedding. Do you think the father is unreasonable for standing up for his son’s hair, or should the son cut his hair for the wedding?
NTA. Poor kid. Bridezilla needs to get over herself

Wedding demands can be unreasonable. NTA for refusing.

No one will remember the flower boy’s hair after the wedding ♂️

Bride’s demand for teenager’s haircut is sheer entitlement. NTA!

NTA. Family prioritizes hair over love and respect.

Celebrating self-expression and individuality! ♂️

Sassy reply shuts down creepy step-granddad’s email hijack ♂️

Father stands by son’s hair, faces toxic family drama.

Letting kids have control over their appearance is important ♂️

Awesome parenting! Stand tall and support your son’s choices.

Father stands up for son’s long hair at brother’s wedding

Defending son’s long hair for wedding, calling out Bridezilla.

Brother’s wedding? No hair don’t care!

Stand up for your son’s right to choose his hairstyle
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Rebel dad refuses to cut son’s hair for wedding

Legal repercussions for forced haircuts. NTA for standing up.

Empathetic commenter supports father’s refusal to cut son’s hair.

Don’t let entitled wedding parties dictate your child’s appearance NTA

Standing up for your child’s autonomy

Protective mom threatens stepfather before brother’s wedding

Long hair and beards can clean up just fine

Embrace the curls! A parent’s stance on self-expression.

Weddings are about celebrating love, not appearances! ❤

Protective father defends son’s hair choice for brother’s wedding ♂️
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Stepfather’s tux threat over son’s hair leads to family drama

Philosopher Meat Loaf approves of not cutting son’s hair

Stand up for yourself and enjoy a vacation! NTA

Long hair, don’t care! NTA for refusing to cut.

Long hair, don’t care! NTA parent saves their son’s locks

The final verdict: NTA!

Let your son keep his long hair and cut off toxic family.

Supporting your son’s choices is always the right move

A father defends his son’s hair for wedding. NTA.

Stand up for your son and have fun instead!

Stand your ground! NTA

Standing up for what’s right. #ParentGoals

Wedding traditions shouldn’t dictate someone’s appearance. ♂️

Being a supportive parent pays off, NTA!

Be the bigger person, attend the wedding happily

Bridezilla demands haircut for wedding, father stands up for son. ♂️

Stand your ground! Don’t attend

Father stands by son’s hair for brother’s wedding. NTA.

NTA for not making son cut his hair for brother’s wedding ♂️

Wedding demands haircuts? Not the a**hole for refusing.

Bridezilla alert! Commenter supports father letting son keep long hair.

Valuing people for who they are, not how they look ♂️

Commenter questions groom’s choice of bride and family dynamics

Hair today, gone tomorrow? Not if you ask him! ♂️

Celebrating individuality and skipping the wedding circus

Supportive dad defends son’s hair for brother’s wedding #NTA

Letting kids be themselves on special occasions

Brother’s wedding drama over son’s hair – family feud

Let him rock his hair! Bride and groom okay with 15yo flower dude?
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Hair discrimination at its finest ♀️ #NTA

Stand your ground! Don’t let a bridezilla ruin your hair.
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Stepfather acts as bridezilla’s mouthpiece, NTA for standing up

Wedding hair rules? Not cool Let him keep it long

Suggesting a mischievous solution for the hair-cutting dilemma

Father stands up for son’s hair at brother’s wedding ❤️
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A blunt and uncompromising response

Weddings shouldn’t force drastic appearance changes. Flower bobby pins to rescue!

Inclusivity matters more than looks. NTA for refusing.

Protecting your child from abuse. You’re a good parent!

Check out the son’s hair for the wedding

Father defends son’s hair against stepfather’s ultimatum for wedding.

NTA – Asking to change style for wedding is different than demand.

Commenter wants to see the hair , and OP delivers

Father stands up for son’s hair at brother’s wedding. NTA

Hair doesn’t define him! NTA for standing up for son

Supportive comment earns NTA parent praise

Daughter’s badass haircut defies wedding norms – NTA wins.

Weddings should be about celebrating love, not controlling appearances
