The saying “you can’t have your cake and eat it too” is a great way to describe a lot of situations in life. It’s especially true when you want both a night with your best girls and a night with your best fella. Unfortunately, the two don’t always mix, which is why there’s usually a clear divide between the two. And you’d expect that from a man who’s in a relationship with a woman who has a close-knit group of female friends. But as one woman on Reddit’s r/AITA pointed out, her boyfriend didn’t get that memo. In fact, he was so insistent on joining her and her friends for their nights in that she finally came up with a plan. A plan that backfired in the worst possible way. Let’s take a look at the whole story below. We’d love to hear your thoughts on the situation. Who do you think was at fault? What do you think the girlfriend could have done differently? And what did you think of her boyfriend’s actions in this whole drama?
Boyfriend’s attempts to join in on the girls’ night caused tension and discomfort for all

Girlfriend takes drastic measures to keep her boyfriend from joining her girls’ night out!

Girlfriend takes matters into her own hands with a little TMI to make her boyfriend leave her girls’ night early

Girlfriend’s girls’ night takes an uncomfortable turn as boyfriend experiences distress from gross topics

Boyfriend gets unexpected surprise when girlfriend hosts girls’ night

Girlfriend hosts girls’ night, but boyfriend leaves after she brings up ‘gross subjects’

Boyfriend is upset after girlfriend’s girls’ night turns sour with gross topics and him being asked to leave!

Girlfriend gets unexpected reaction after hosting girls’ night, **UPDATE**

Girlfriend’s night gone wrong when bf gets upset and girlfriend is left to reevaluate their relationship.

Girlfriend gives update on her relationship after hosting a girls’ night – “Many hugs go out to you guys, I really appreciate y’all! “

Girl power! Who else is here for it? ♀️
This post tells the story of a girl who had enough of her boyfriend’s insistence to join her girls’ night in despite her clear refusal. She came up with an ingenious plan to make him hate hanging out with the girls and it worked! The girls discussed gross and embarrassing topics in detail, making him feel uncomfortable and leaving immediately. The boyfriend accused the girl of making him feel sick with the topics and gave her the silent treatment. The post ends with the girl deciding to temporarily move in with one of her friends. It looks like this story is full of girl power, so who else is here for it? ♀️ Let’s take a closer look at the comments and reactions to this post!
Girlfriend hosts girls’ night, boyfriend gets

NTA – Don’t let him control you!

NTA: Red flags flying

Boyfriend gets after girlfriend’s girls’ night

NTA!

NTA: Boyfriend’s Unreasonable Request!

Girl s’ night gone wrong ♀️

Is this relationship ?

Girlfriend’s night takes a turn

A creative solution!

NTA: *Girlfriend* wins
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♀️ Boyfriend gets upset!

Trust issues in relationships

NTA: Handle Things Like Adults

Boyfriend gets jealous?

NTA: ♀️ Boyfriend is controlling

Girlfriend’s girls’ night sparks debate

Is this relationship worth it?

NTA ♀️ – Controlling & Narcissistic

♀️ NTA: Dump Him!

Girl stands up for herself

Boyfriend’s 27 but acts like a ⚠️ 10yo?

Control issues

NTA: Respect your boundaries!

NTA + Major red flags!

Dump his a**!

NTA: is your bf really controlling?

NTA: Girlfriend takes action

Girl talk gets from bf

NTA: Red Flag Alert!

A controlling bf?

Trade partners?

NTA for conversation topics

NTA: Time to the bf!

Why is this guy still around?

NTA: ♀️ Time to call it quits

NTA: Why stay?

NTA out of the ♂️ but YTA for inflicting your douchey bf

Controlling boyfriend ♀️

YTA: Red flags ignored

Girlfriend – Red flags + Subterfuge

YTA to both friends and bf?

NTA: Red flags!

NTA: ♀️ Couples need time apart!

Let’s reevaluate this relationship!

Girl’s night ruined

Is it time? ♀️

NTA: ♀️ Don’t let him control you!

NTA: Don’t let him control you!

NTA: You’re an evil mastermind! ⚠️

♀️ NTA – dump him!

Girl’s night:

NTA, but send him home

NTA, but
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NTA Girlfriend’s BF too controlling?

Is it time to ?

NTA: ♀️ Find someone who won’t try to control you

Move on from this guy!

NTA – ♀️ Time to dump him!

NTA: Intruding in a situation he wasn’t welcome in?

Boyfriend finds out he wasn’t really invited to his girlfriend’s girls’ night.

NTA: Stand up to him

NTA: ♀️ Time to cancel the b/f.

Single guy wonders how his ex got a girlfriend ♀️

Boyfriend’s controlling behavior

NTA: Relationship ultimatums?

NTA but you could be

NTA: Is it really worth it?

NTA

Both parties ♂️ NTA and ESH!

NTA: why date someone who gets woozy over periods?
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Girl’s night gone wrong

Think before you act!

NTA! ♀️ Break up with him.

NTA: ♂️ He deserved to leave

NTA: Your bf’s behavior is

NTA but

NTA. What was the underlying insecurity?

NTA Girls’ night ♀️

NTA and Break Up

Breakup with him. NTA
