When a mom plans an allergy-safe birthday party for her daughter, her in-laws refuse to eat vegan food. The mom wants to cater to her daughter’s allergies, but her husband and his family want to eat what they like. Despite offering meat options, the in-laws still won’t budge. What is the mom supposed to do? Read on to find out how this birthday party turned out.
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A mother wants her daughter’s first birthday to be vegan, but her husband’s family refuses to eat anything without meat, dairy, or eggs. The daughter is allergic to dairy and eggs, and the mother wants one day when she doesn’t have to watch everything her daughter eats. The menu only consists of homemade veggie soup and cake with apple sauce and oat milk instead of eggs and dairy. However, the husband’s side of the family won’t eat anything vegan, and the mother is torn between making a meal that her daughter can’t eat and having a meal that everyone can eat. She sees it as a simple request to have one day catered to her daughter, but her husband thinks that pizza and ‘normal’ cake is the solution. The post has sparked a lot of discussions, with some people supporting the mother’s decision and others criticizing her menu choices. Read on to find out the reactions and comments on this controversial topic.
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