We’ve all heard of phobias that can cause discomfort or even be debilitating, but one such phobia was the cause of great distress for one Reddit user. What happened when a coworker’s phobia was triggered by a medical necessity? Read on for the full story and see if you think the original poster was at fault or not.
A coworker with a severe blood phobia had to quit after conflicts with a diabetic colleague.

Gained courage to approach HR for a solution to conflicting medical needs “of both” coworkers

HR stepped in to ensure the diabetic colleague could safely test their blood sugar in their office without fear of judgement

James and HR reached an agreement to resolve the conflict between James and his diabetic colleague.

James must ask permission before entering the office of a diabetic colleague due to his severe blood phobia

Colleague’s severe blood phobia causes them to quit after conflict with diabetic colleague.

James is given an extra ten-minute break to cope with his phobia symptoms

Conflict between diabetic and phobic colleague leads to sudden departure

Coworker’s blood phobia leads to conflict with diabetic colleague, resulting in their departure.

James put in his two-week notice due to a conflict with a diabetic colleague, despite not harboring ill will

A coworker with a fear of blood had to quit due to conflict with their diabetic colleague

Although James was relieved to leave, it was a difficult situation for all involved. Feeling bad for James, who is living with a severe phobia, we hope he continues to seek help.

No resolution reached, coworker forced to quit

A diabetic’s medical needs conflict with their coworker’s severe blood phobia
After posting on Reddit for reassurance that they were doing the right thing, the OP and their coworker with a severe blood phobia agreed on a system that worked for a week. However, when the coworker called to enter the OP’s office and then failed to arrive twice, the OP was naturally frustrated. Later, the OP found out their coworker had put in their two-week notice, citing the OP’s diabetes as a factor. The OP feels bad for the coworker, but is relieved to not feel like a leper at work anymore. Unfortunately, the situation did not have a happy ending. With this in mind, let’s see what the Reddit community had to say.
Coworker with phobia finds support from HR

A coworker’s severe phobia

HR attempted to solve a conflict between two coworkers with opposing medical conditions.

Is a face-to-face office interaction necessary?

Aftermath of a conflict between a diabetic and a phobic coworker.
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A difficult situation
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Two coworkers with different medical needs create a caring relationship

A stranger offers hope
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Questions about manners

Diabetics ♂️ ⚕️: A look at CGM usage

Supporting a coworker with a severe phobia

NTA: Coworker’s severe phobia forced them to quit ♀️

Is there an or a ?

NTA: coworker’s responsibility to avoid triggers?

Sympathy for James

A *serious* discussion about phobia and boundaries

Conflict between diabetic & phobic coworker!

No compromises on medical needs!

Standing up for yourself!

♀️ Dealing with a phobia isn’t easy,

A conflict with a diabetic colleague

NTA: support for a phobic sister

Overcoming fear:

HR takes action but unanswered questions remain

A story of overcoming fear

James’ new job search.

A blood phobia forces an exit

A strange situation

Drama king in the workplace

James forced to quit due to
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Diabetes vs. phobia

A shocking expectation

You won’t believe this!

A coworker’s severe phobia

A medical need vs. a phobia

♀️ Inconvenience for him?

A simple solution to a complex problem!
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A sad lesson learned

Empathy for those with phobias

Tough times for phobia sufferer!

A coworker’s severe phobia leads to resignation

Progress in diabetes tech

James and OP’s mature

James: ♂️ Therapy needed?

Coworker quits due to diabetic colleague

HR’s response: be generous

The struggle of phobia

Is therapy the answer?

HR steps up for employee!

Good for HR –

Diabetic colleague not the a**hole!

Need help with a phobia?

Is it time to move on?

♀️ Unfair expectations of managing phobias

An ancient technique
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Diabetic colleague’s problem vs blood phobia

A type 1 diabetic’s advice

Co-worker’s trauma

How is he coping?

Coexisting mental & medical issues

Should men know more about periods?

James’ phobia put life at risk
