Imagine inheriting a house from a beloved relative, only to find yourself embroiled in a moral quandary. This is the story of a 21-year-old woman who inherited her great aunt’s house, complete with wheelchair accessibility on the ground floor. When she lost her job due to the pandemic, she decided to rent out the extra rooms downstairs to a tenant named Brian, a wheelchair user. However, when Brian requested access to the second floor, she refused, sparking a debate about rights, boundaries, and accessibility. Let’s delve into the story… ♿
The Inheritance and the New Tenant

The House and its Accessibility

Enter Brian, the Wheelchair User

A Surprising Comfort

The Request for Upstairs Access

The Landlady’s Stance

The Brother’s Disagreement

The Tenant’s Condition and the Landlady’s Strength

The Terms of the Lease

The Upstairs: A Private Sanctuary

A House Divided: The Clash Over Accessibility and Privacy
In the heart of this tale lies a young woman, her inherited house, and her tenant, Brian. The house, a gift from her late great aunt, became a source of income when she lost her job due to the pandemic. Brian, a wheelchair user, moved in and all was well until he requested access to the second floor. The landlady refused, stating that the upstairs was her private space. This sparked a debate about boundaries, accessibility, and rights within a shared living space. Let’s see how the internet weighed in on this intriguing predicament… ♿
NTA- Wheelchair user’s request for second floor access raises concerns.

Landlady denies wheelchair access to upstairs, commenters support her decision

NTA. Check with a lawyer to protect yourself from potential scams.

Don’t underestimate disabled people, but prioritize your safety. NTA.

“NTA – He has no legit reason to go upstairs. ♀️”

Curiosity sparks as no reason is given for wanting upstairs

NTA. Disabled tenant raises concerns about safety, evict or be cautious.

INFO: Does the lease agreement grant access to the second floor?

Tenant defends landlady’s decision to deny wheelchair access. ♿️
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Tenant questions need for wheelchair user to go upstairs.

Denied wheelchair access, but commenters share personal assault stories.

NTA: If he doesn’t need it, why should he have it? ♀️

NTA for denying wheelchair access, tenant can modify at own expense.

NTA. Safety concerns: paralyzed legs ≠ harmless. Personal experience with dangerous tenant.

Landlord’s dilemma: Is denying wheelchair access reasonable? Legal advice needed!

Fair point! Accessibility isn’t an issue for his safety downstairs. ✅

NTA – No need to make upstairs accessible, it’s creepy.

NTA. Respect boundaries.

Landlady advises tenant on how to deny wheelchair access

Denying wheelchair access: NTA, but is there a compromise possible?

NTA. Safety first! Don’t take chances, prioritize your well-being. ♀️

You’re in charge! Your crib, your rules.

NTA for denying wheelchair access, but why is it weird?

NTA. Clarify rental agreement to avoid upstairs exploration by friends!

Curious about the need for upstairs access? NTA here!
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Engaging with tenants about wheelchair access and personal space! ✨

Tenant knew what he signed up for, no need for upstairs.
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Denying wheelchair access to private area? NTA, understandable decision.

You have the right to deny wheelchair access.

NTA for denying wheelchair access, but install a lock for privacy.

Landlady’s decision: NTA for denying wheelchair access, but ableist thinking.

NTA – Expensive, no need for second floor access. ♀️

Landlady’s decision justified: NTA for denying wheelchair access upstairs

Landlady stands her ground against disrespectful tenant.

Landlady defends denying wheelchair access, calls tenant’s request ‘creepy’

Would you unlock your door for your neighbor?

NTA. Landlady divided the home into separate areas, NTA.
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Landlady makes tough call on wheelchair access. NTA.

Curious about the justification for wanting access to your space?

Respecting boundaries: NTA’s decision to deny wheelchair access explained.

Wheelchair access denied, but does he really need it?
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Is he assuming a romantic relationship and demanding accommodations?

Renting upstairs? Not his problem. Handicap or not. ♂️

Install a lock at the top of the stairs for safety!

NTA. Set boundaries and prioritize safety, without compromising accessibility.

NTA: Renting rooms, not whole house. Brian needs to find elsewhere.

Firmly standing her ground No wheelchair access upstairs!

Tenant demands access to private area. NTA for refusing!

NTA. Consult a lawyer to ensure lease agreement and property laws.

NTA – Accessibility debate: Does he really need to go upstairs?

Clear rental agreement: 2 rooms downstairs only, no emotion involved.

Assertive young landlady defends decision and secures her privacy

NTA. Disabled people aren’t babies. Safety concerns are valid.

Tenant’s rights unclear. Landlady may be in the wrong.

Tenant wants access to landlord’s living quarters. NTA.

Landlady denies wheelchair access, tenant acts creepy. NTA, update!

Challenging stereotypes: A landlady’s safety concerns for wheelchair-bound tenant.
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Wheelchair access denied: Is it about space or discrimination? NTA
