Ever had a joke go so wrong it ended up in HR’s hands? Well, buckle up, because you’re about to dive into a tale of office humor gone awry! Meet our storyteller, a 30-year-old woman who has been working with her good friend, Gio, for six years. They have a running joke about Gio’s former boss, Drew, being his ‘boyfriend’. All fun and games, right? Well, not until the new coworker, Kate, overhears and takes things a bit too seriously…
The Inside Joke Revealed!

Why Drew, Though?

The Joke Escalates!

Enter Kate, The Newbie! ️♀️

Misunderstanding Leads to HR!

The Aftermath: Avoidance Game! ♀️

Office Humor or HR Nightmare: You Decide! ♀️
In a twist of events, a harmless inside joke between two friends spirals into an HR investigation! Our storyteller and her friend, Gio, have been joking about Gio’s ‘boyfriend’, Drew, for years. But when Kate, the new coworker, overhears and misunderstands, she reports it to HR. Even after the misunderstanding is cleared up, our storyteller is left feeling frustrated and unsure of how to interact with Kate. Her boyfriend suggests she cut Kate some slack, but she’s not so sure. What’s your take on this office drama? Let’s hear your thoughts!
NTA. Avoiding her is reasonable. Don’t engage with troublemakers.

NTA – Kate needs to grow up
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Unprofessional inside joke triggers HR investigation, causing discomfort and offense
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NTA. Avoid her, be polite. She went straight to HR

NAH. Kate did the right thing, but communication is key.

“YTA – You’re at work, you don’t make jokes like that.”

Stay professional and avoid unnecessary interactions with her.

YTA for creating a toxic work environment with homophobic jokes

Navigating workplace drama: Retaliation accusations can complicate HR investigations!

“YTA. Unprofessional behavior and damaging to company reputation. “
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“Inappropriate joke at work triggers HR investigation! “

Blue collar worker grateful to avoid office drama. NTA

“YTA, making homophobic jokes is unacceptable and can lead to serious consequences.”

Insensitive workplace joke about someone’s sexuality leads to HR investigation!

Homophobic comment sparks controversy and HR investigation!

NTA. Things just got weird.

Hilarious prank at work raises eyebrows among mature colleagues!

Using company email for jokes? You’re asking for trouble!

“YTA. Your joke created a toxic work environment “
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NTA, HR investigation over an inside joke?

“Inappropriate jokes at work can have serious consequences. Be professional!”

Inside jokes gone wrong: YTA for offensive workplace behavior!

YTA for not understanding mandatory reporting and supporting colleagues
