Woman’s Secret Surrogate Past Unearthed: A Relationship on the Rocks?

Imagine you’re in a committed relationship, and you’ve made it clear from the beginning that you’re not interested in having kids. Your partner, although initially desiring children, decides he can live without them for you. Then, during a family visit, a decade-old photo reveals you, heavily pregnant. The plot thickens when you disclose that you were a surrogate for your sister. How would your partner react? Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story.

The ‘No-Kids’ Agreement

A Compromise Reached

The Unveiling of a Secret Past

The Surrogate Revelation ️‍♀️

The ‘Handy Oven’ Metaphor

The Aftermath of the Revelation

The Accusation and the Defense

The Apology and Reminder

The Lingering Disagreement

The Surrogacy Rules Explained

The Exception to the Rule

The Fear of Losing Rights ‍⚖️

A Relationship Tested by a Surrogate Past: Where Do They Stand Now? ‍♀️

In a relationship where the woman had been clear about not wanting kids, a shocking revelation of her surrogate past sends shockwaves. The boyfriend feels betrayed, thinking she had been willing to carry a child for her sister but not for him. Despite her explanation that being a surrogate was different from raising a child, and that this was a part of her past before they met, the boyfriend remains upset. As the dust settles, the question remains – was she wrong for not sharing this part of her past? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

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“Giving birth for my sister doesn’t mean I owe him.”

NTA. BF wants kids, marriage may not last. Find child-free partner.

NTA, but he wants kids and is in denial. ‍♀️

Surrogate requirements vary by country and state. Interesting discussion!

“ESH” – OP and bf both made mistakes, resentment may follow

“NTA, but he’s lying to himself. Relationship is doomed. “

YTA for hiding being a surrogate from your partner for years

NTA – Your partner’s confusion about your surrogate past.

Secret surrogate past causes relationship turmoil. YTA for hiding.

NTA vs ESH: A rocky relationship with hidden surrogacy secret

ESH. He’s overreacting, but you should’ve been upfront about surrogacy. ‍♀️

YTA for keeping a major secret from your partner for years

NTA – Clear communication is key in relationships.

NTA: Your body, your choice. His reaction is manipulative bs

NTA, but surprise pregnancy revelation tests relationship trust.

Secret surrogate past causes confusion and relationship strain. YTA.

“YTA. Not disclosing your surrogate past breeds mistrust in relationships.”

ESH: Relationship on the rocks due to undisclosed surrogate past

Interesting perspective on the partner’s desire for kids.

End the relationship. He resents your decision. It won’t improve.

NTA – Clear communication is key in relationships.

Stick to your guns! You’re NTA for not wanting kids!

NTA. Your past, your choice.

Surrogate stands up for herself, shuts down entitled partner.

A gentle YTA: Communication issues and the desire for transparency.

Engaging comment and potential relationship red flags, with a touch of cynicism

NTA. Your body, your choice. Don’t let him guilt-trip you.