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Woman’s Hair Routine Sparks Unexpected Marital Conflict: ‘Should Have Married a White Woman’

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Everyone knows that maintaining a good hair routine is essential, especially for women with certain hair types. But what happens when your nightly hair care routine becomes a source of conflict with your spouse? This is the predicament one black woman found herself in when her white husband started making snide remarks about her hair care routine. Let’s dive into this hair-raising tale! ‍♀️ ‍♀️

Hair Care Routine: A Necessary Ritual

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The Satin Scarf: A Hair Savior

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Oils: A New Addition to the Routine

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Hubby’s Jokes: Crossing the Line?

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Missing Scarf: A Prank Gone Wrong

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The Breaking Point: A Harsh Retort

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Aftermath: Awkward Silence and Counseling

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Reflection: Was It Too Much?

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Counseling: A Step Too Far?

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Hair Care or Racial Controversy? A Couple’s Unexpected Conflict

What started as a simple hair care routine for a black woman with 4c hair, quickly escalated into a marital conflict with her white husband. His playful remarks about her satin scarf and oil routine soon crossed a line, leading to a heated exchange. After he hid her scarf, she retorted that if he desired a different hair type to run his fingers through, he should’ve married a white woman. This statement has left an awkward silence between the couple, with the husband even suggesting counseling for their ‘race issues’. Now, the internet weighs in on this tangled situation. Let’s see what they have to say…

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NTA for calling out husband’s racist and controlling behavior.

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NTA – Husband’s racist comments spark conflict, counseling needed for resolution.

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“Wait so he said ‘are we doing slave tonight’ but YOU made him feel like a racist?? Go ahead and call the race therapist asap. Also! You need back up scarves Sis, I have like 4. Hide my shyt, try me :)” ‍♀️

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Supportive husband defends wife’s hair routine against racist comments.

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NTA… He was being racist, though? You might tolerate or be forgiving of the slavery jokes but another black girl might not be. Not sure why he’s upset he was made to “feel racist” when he was being racist. Keep wrapping your hair, get counseling for your bfs immaturity. I hope he treats you better in the future or you find someone more respectful.

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“NTA. Wear your headscarf; no relationship is worth sacrificing your edges.”

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Spouse’s racist remarks spark conflict: NTA for calling him out

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Racist comment sparks conflict: Hair care or racial insensitivity? ✂️

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NTA. Black woman defends her hair routine against husband’s ignorance.

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Excellent_Patience | Excellent_Patience

Racial tension in marriage sparks counseling need ‍⚖️

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NTA called out racist husband, now he wants couples counseling?

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Thunderholts | Thunderholts

Uncomfortable race-related comments spark concerns about deeper disconnect.

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NTA. Your haircare routine is important. His comments are hurtful.

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NAH: Communication issues arise from in-couple banter about race. ️

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WyvernsRest | WyvernsRest

NTA. Partner’s ignorance about race creates ongoing relationship challenge. ‍♀️

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Opensixty | Opensixty

Seeking counseling for marital conflict: a crucial step for resolution

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NTA: Calling you a slave was racist, glad he regrets it

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NTA. Racist husband’s ‘slave joke’ sparks justified outrage. Unacceptable behavior.

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NTA. Hair routine sparks racial conflict. Slave jokes are racist.

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NTA shows grace and strength in the face of racism ✊

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quatschmensch | quatschmensch

Interracial couple confronts racial insensitivity, suggests therapy for husband.

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NTA – Husband’s racially insensitive jokes cause marital conflict. Counseling recommended.

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Interracial marriage sparks hair routine clash – counseling can help!

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NTA: Confronting racism in a marriage, it’s time for action ✊

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White woman empathizes with NTA’s hair struggle; husband’s insensitive jokes.

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Understanding the challenges of caring for 4c hair ‍♀️✨

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Black commenter advises woman to leave racist husband for self-care

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Commenter suggests counseling to address problematic comments in marriage.

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“NTA. He belittled your hair routine and made racist comments. Counseling recommended.”

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NTA. Educate him on his race issues and demand an apology.

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“NTA for taking care of your hair. Husband needs to apologize.”

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NTA. Slave jokes? That’s a major red flag!

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NTA comment sparks debate about racism and cultural expectations.

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Defending against racism: NTA stands up to husband’s derogatory remarks

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Engaging banter turns harmful, but immaturity can be addressed with love.

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NTA: Don’t apologize for his racist jokes, focus on counseling.

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ZeJLarkin | ZeJLarkin

NTA. Confronting internalized racism in a marital conflict. ✊

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Black woman’s partner makes racist jokes, relationship ends. NTA.

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Is racism tearing your relationship apart? Let’s discuss the issue.

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Tots795 | Tots795

Commenter calls out husband’s racist comment about his black wife

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NTA. Denying bodily autonomy, his remarks are disgusting

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NTA – Husband’s ‘slave comment’ crossed the line, communication is key.

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NTA. Husband’s racist behavior sparks conflict. ‍♂️

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Racist remarks about looking like a slave – not cool!

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Standing up against racism and inappropriate jokes. NTA!

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