Imagine you’re battling a life-threatening disease, and amidst the physical and emotional turmoil, you’re also dealing with a family feud. This is the reality for one woman who has made some controversial decisions about her estranged sister’s involvement in her life and potential death. Her story, full of conflict, drama, and emotional impact, is sure to stir up some heated debates. Let’s dive into her tale…
The Estranged Sister ♀️

The Funeral Fiasco

A Hurtful Message

The Cancer Diagnosis

The Power of Attorney Decision

The Final Wishes

The Second Rule

The Battle Continues ⚔️

The Unwanted Updates

The Controversial Request ♀️

The Criticism Begins ️

A Plea for Understanding

In Defense of Dad ️

A Family Feud Amidst a Cancer Battle: Cruel or Justified?
In the face of a life-threatening illness, one woman has made some controversial decisions about her estranged sister’s involvement in her life. From banning her from her potential funeral to requesting her family to block her upon her death, these decisions have sparked heated debates. Some argue she’s being cruel, denying her sister a chance at reconciliation and information about her health. Others believe she has the right to protect herself and her family from further emotional turmoil. What’s your take on this family drama? Let’s see what the internet has to say about it…
“Private medical info shared by dad. Sister’s troubled past. ESH.”
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NTA: Time to stop telling dad stuff.
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NTA, your funeral, your choice. Drama won’t matter when dead.

Curious about the sister’s reasons for going low contact?

ESH. Commenter shares personal experience and empathizes with OP’s sister.

“YTA, your family did something really bad and you’re ignoring it.”

YTA: Respect dying wishes, but don’t control others’ emotions.

Curious about the sister’s perspective? Find out the reasons!

ESH. Missing info makes this family drama even more confusing.

ESH, but OP should focus on more important things. ♀️
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Demanding your sister be banned from your funeral? YTA.

Unpopular opinion: YTA. Your actions may cause more pain.
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Commenter believes the OP is the a**hole for controlling family relationships.

YTA, sorry. Funerals are for the living, not the dead.

Let go of hatred and revenge, embrace love and forgiveness.

NTA: Taking control of your final wishes. Kick cancer’s ass!
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YTA: Family ties shouldn’t be severed, even in conflict.

ESH: OP wants to protect themselves, but can’t control others.

Engaging comment suggests OP should focus on fighting cancer.

Roles in family drama: INFO on siblings’ involvement in situation?

Family feud escalates even after death. Who’s really in control?

YTA: Using your funeral to continue abuse and isolation.

ESH…Time to hash out unresolved issues and make peace.

Curious about the sister’s childhood? The plot thickens…

YTA. Your sister’s trauma doesn’t justify your controlling behavior.

Curious about the reason behind the sister’s estrangement?

YTA, but let go of the pain and build bridges.

Mixed judgment on banning sister from funeral, control issues addressed.

Controlling others after death? YTA, causing unnecessary pain.

YTA. Cowardly sibling defends abusive mother, sparks justified backlash.

Dad’s info diet sparks justified NTA debate.
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ESH: Sister banned from funeral sparks family conflict. Who’s right?

Commenter defends the right to choose who attends funerals.
