Imagine offering your home to your sister and her husband, only to have her make unsettling ‘jokes’ about sabotaging your birth control. That’s precisely what happened to one woman, who then had to make a tough decision. After agreeing to let her sister and brother-in-law move in, she was forced to change her mind due to her sister’s inappropriate comments during a family dinner.
The Sister’s Struggle

Temporary Housing Situation

A Family Dinner Proposal ️

Agreeing to Help

Disturbing ‘Jokes’

More ‘Jokes’ and Unease

Trying to Change the Topic

Enough is Enough!

Family’s Reaction

Leaving the Dinner ♀️

A Tough Decision Made
After her sister made several unsettling ‘jokes’ about tampering with her birth control, our protagonist decided to withdraw her offer to house her sister and brother-in-law. Despite her family accusing her of overreacting and being a drama queen, she stood her ground with the support of her boyfriend. Are these ‘jokes’ really something to brush off, or is our protagonist justified in her decision? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
“NTA. She threatened to sabotage your birth control. Keep her away! “

NTA. Your sister’s ‘jokes’ reveal questionable mental stability

Dark humor reigns in this comment section

NTA. Tampering with birth control is not a joking matter

NTA. Stand your ground and let them host themselves

“NTA those are seriously weird and oddly specific ‘jokes’ “

NTA. Inappropriate ‘jokes’ and unrealistic expectations from your sister.

Red flags raised when sister’s ‘jokes’ cross the line

“NTA. She wants kids but not to carry them. Sketchy vibes.”
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Not funny at all! NTA for withdrawing the offer

Serious sister withdraws offer after disturbing ‘jokes’

NTA, creepy jokes? Withdraw that offer!

NTA. Sister’s jokes crossed the line, respect and harmony lost.

NTA. Creepy jokes, but good on you for showing restraint

NTA. Protect your home and contraception from her disturbing plans

YTA. Your purpose in life is to be the vessel for your sister’s spawn, and… (Wait) Oh. I’ve been informed sarcasm doesn’t work well on the internet. Very well. NTA.

Sister’s twisted motives exposed! Protect yourself and your future!

NTA. Stand your ground and cut toxic people out.

Protect yourself. NTA. Don’t let them move in.

NTA: Sister’s disturbing ‘jokes’ cross the line, stay away!

Red flags and parental backup make withdrawing offer justified.

Thank God you saw the red flags! NTA

NTA: Sister wants baby, but OP won’t give in.

Not the a**hole for not finding those jokes funny

NTA. Your sister’s creepy ‘jokes’ crossed the line. Stay away!

NTA: Woman withdraws offer to house sister after disturbing ‘jokes’

NTA. Trust your instincts. Don’t house someone you don’t trust.
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Sister’s ‘jokes’ reveal her crazy plan to mooch off you!
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Disappointed with sister’s attitude towards adoption
