Picture this: a family reunion where the topic of career choices comes up. Meg, an 18-year-old, is excited about pursuing a computer science degree, just like her cousin. But when her cousin is asked for advice, things take a dramatic turn. Instead of encouraging Meg, the cousin shares her own harrowing experiences in the field and advises against it. Was she out of line, or just being honest?
Family Reunion Career Talk
Unsolicited Advice?
The Unpleasant Truth
Meg’s Passion for CS
A Dark Journey
The Industry Nightmare
A Never-Ending Cycle
Role Models Gone
The Price of Mental Health
Meg’s Interest Piqued
Rick’s Outburst
A Heated Argument
Walking Away ♀️
Edit: Seeking Better Experiences
A Glimmer of Hope ✨
A Brutal Honesty or a Dream Crusher?
When Meg’s cousin revealed the harsh reality of her own computer science career, it sparked a heated debate at the family reunion. Meg’s father, Rick, was furious, accusing the cousin of trying to ruin his daughter’s future. But was she just trying to protect Meg from the same pain she had experienced? The internet is divided, with some defending the cousin’s honesty and others arguing that her experience isn’t representative of the entire field. One thing’s for sure: this family reunion will be remembered for years to come.
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Informative comment on sexism in STEM and supporting the OP.
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Informative comment on potential harassment in CS careers, dismissed by family.
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Last Updated on June 14, 2023 by Diply Social Team