Woman Warns Cousin’s Daughter About the Dark Side of Computer Science Careers

Picture this: a family reunion where the topic of career choices comes up. Meg, an 18-year-old, is excited about pursuing a computer science degree, just like her cousin. But when her cousin is asked for advice, things take a dramatic turn. Instead of encouraging Meg, the cousin shares her own harrowing experiences in the field and advises against it. Was she out of line, or just being honest?

Family Reunion Career Talk

Unsolicited Advice?

The Unpleasant Truth

Meg’s Passion for CS

A Dark Journey

The Industry Nightmare

A Never-Ending Cycle

Role Models Gone

The Price of Mental Health

Meg’s Interest Piqued

Rick’s Outburst

A Heated Argument

Walking Away ‍♀️

Edit: Seeking Better Experiences

A Glimmer of Hope ✨

A Brutal Honesty or a Dream Crusher?

When Meg’s cousin revealed the harsh reality of her own computer science career, it sparked a heated debate at the family reunion. Meg’s father, Rick, was furious, accusing the cousin of trying to ruin his daughter’s future. But was she just trying to protect Meg from the same pain she had experienced? The internet is divided, with some defending the cousin’s honesty and others arguing that her experience isn’t representative of the entire field. One thing’s for sure: this family reunion will be remembered for years to come.

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