Meet a 26-year-old woman who has been struggling with the pain of having size 38E breasts. She’s tried everything from yoga to exercising, but nothing seems to alleviate her back and shoulder pain. After researching, she found that a breast reduction could be the solution she’s been searching for. But when she shared her decision with her 28-year-old boyfriend, she was met with an explosive reaction.
The Painful Reality

Searching for Solutions

The Discovery

Boyfriend’s Outrage

Accusations Fly

The Argument

Name-Calling

Her Response

Genetic Origins

Update: Size and Relationship

Boyfriend’s Unbelievable Reaction
Our protagonist thought her boyfriend would be supportive of her decision to undergo breast reduction surgery to alleviate her pain. But instead, he accused her of caving into societal pressure and said he wouldn’t be attracted to her anymore if she went through with it. After a heated argument, he tried to ‘compromise’ by allowing her to reduce her size only to a D cup, calling anything smaller ‘childish.’ His behavior has left her questioning their relationship. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Boyfriend won’t support breast reduction? Schedule a boyfriend excision.

NTA! Boyfriend prioritizes his pleasure over her well-being

Empowering support for woman seeking breast reduction despite controlling boyfriend ✌️

NTA. Dump him. He only cares about your body

NTA prioritizing physical health over sexualization, boyfriend is childish.
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Empowering response to unsupportive partner.

Supportive commenters encourage breast reduction for health and comfort.

NTA. Boyfriend has a breast fetish, not a relationship with you

Playful banter on breast development and waiting for growth.

NTA stands up to societal pressure for breast reduction

Body positivity wins over toxic relationship

Boyfriend giving ultimatum over breast reduction. NTA.
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NTA. Find a man who appreciates you for more than your body

Empowering response to woman’s desire for breast reduction surgery.

NTA! Breast reduction can be life-changing. Boyfriend is manipulative

Supportive comment encourages correct bra size and breast reduction, calls out incompatible boyfriend.

This comment section is just full of angry emojis

Supportive comment and reply warn of potential consequences of breast reduction

Curious commenter asks age, receives one-word answer.

Your body, your choice. Dump him and get the reduction!

Boyfriend prioritizes sex over partner’s health. Reconsider this relationship.

Dump the selfish boyfriend and find someone who appreciates you!

Supportive comment suggests alternatives to breast reduction, adds humor

Empathetic encouragement to get breast reduction surgery for self-care

Dump him! You deserve better than a boyfriend who values breasts over you.

Boyfriend ignorant about bra sizes, NTA for wanting reduction.

Dump the man and lose the extra boobage. NTA x1000

Supportive comment, condemning boyfriend’s shallow behavior.

NTA commenter shuts down boyfriend’s double standard with humor

Body autonomy matters. Supportive partners only. NTA.

Empowering response to unsupportive boyfriend

Supportive comment encourages breast reduction for personal comfort and calls out controlling behavior of boyfriend.

Boyfriend prioritizes breasts over girlfriend’s health

Empowerment and support for woman seeking breast reduction.
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Supportive comment reminds of important consideration for breast reduction surgery.

Supportive comment defends woman’s right to body autonomy.

Empowering response to unsupportive boyfriend.

Boyfriend flips out over breast reduction, NTA. Your body, your choice

Consulting partner on breast reduction, NTA. Guy would do same.

Dump him! You’re in pain, he’s worried about attraction? NTA

Breast size doesn’t equal maturity? ♀️

Boyfriend throws tantrum over breast reduction. NTA stands firm.

Boyfriend prioritizes own preferences over girlfriend’s health and comfort

Empowerment over control: questioning permission in relationships

Commenter supports OP and calls out boyfriend’s selfishness

BF’s reaction reveals true colors.

Dump him! He cares more about your boobs than your pain.

Supportive comment suggests breast and boyfriend reduction

Your body, your choice! Boyfriend has no say. NTA

Take control of your body! NTA. Dump the controlling loser.
