A woman asked if she would be an a**hole for not telling a guy she was dating about her plans to become a single mother. After following advice to be honest, she now has a committed and supportive boyfriend who wants to help her fulfill her desires to be a mother. She shares her positive outcome and thanks the Reddit community for their support and advice.
Redditor asks if they’re TA for not telling date about pregnancy

To tell or not to tell? The dilemma of sharing plans

To tell or not to tell? The dilemma of being a single mom-to-be on a date

Commenters agree honesty is the best policy for single motherhood.

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Surprising response to disclosing single motherhood plans

Unexpected love and support on journey to single motherhood ❤️

Unexpected love after failed inseminations, now discussing having child together

Date supports woman’s decision to become a single mom ❤️

Overcoming stigma led to understanding and accepting relationship ❤️

Honesty pays off! Unexpected outcome after revealing plans to be single mom

Unexpected outcome of post on co-parenting and step-parenting

Seeking advice on being a single mom in dating world

Reddit community offers unexpected support to single mom-to-be ❤️

From being labeled an a**hole to having the most supportive bf
A woman was unsure if she should tell the guy she was dating about her plans to become a single mother. After seeking advice on Reddit, she decided to be honest with him. Despite the unexpected news, he supported her and they are now in a committed relationship. They have even discussed having a child together. This positive outcome serves as a reminder that honesty is always the best policy. In the next section, we’ll take a look at some reactions from the Reddit community and their views on co-parenting and step-parenting.
Heartwarming comment, wishing a happy family with luck

Encouragement and caution offered for woman considering motherhood options.

Woman considering parenthood cautiously; replies suggest more caution is needed.

Honesty is always the best policy Congrats on moving forward!

Celebrating a happy outcome for a soon-to-be single mom

Heartwarming update on single mom’s love life ❤️

Be careful! Having a baby with a stranger is a bad idea

Is he a people-pleaser? One commenter wonders. Replies reveal more.
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Honesty is the best policy. Great sign of character.

Navigating potential parenthood agreements in a new relationship

Commenter criticizes woman’s choice to date while planning to be a single mom, sparking debate. YTA or NAH?
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Cheers to OP’s baby-making journey!

Advice on becoming a single mom through donor route or freezing eggs.

Cheers to a bright future!

Boomer loves updates on the situation

Honesty is key for strong relationships ️ Good job, OP!

Adoption vs. IVF debate sparks emotional response from readers.

Tricky scenario: Would she sue for child support if needed?

Don’t follow bad advice from friends, strangers can give gems

Comment references romantic comedy, sparks lighthearted discussion ❤️
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Insensitive comment receives backlash from community

Single parenthood can be challenging for both the parent and child.

Controversial comment sparks debate on single motherhood

Comparisons to movie plot found in comment section

User advises caution on impulsive decision to have child with date.
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Commenter reflects on fate and infertility struggles with humor

Debate over single parenthood vs two-parent household sparks in comments.

Consider adoption to help the world and yourself

Confusion over woman’s plans to be single mom sparks debate.

Controversial comment sparks no response from community

Importance of authenticity in life; congratulations on inspiring others!

When the comment section goes off-topic ♀️

️ Communication is key! See what happens when you talk

Heartwarming story of non-traditional family formation

Commenter advises OP to abstain from unprotected i*********e with partner
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Is it too soon to plan for a child together?

Don’t rush into parenthood with a stranger. Take your time.
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Commenter expresses concern about single parenthood outcomes for children.

Unexpected outcome when woman shares plans to be single mom

Single motherhood criticized by commenter, sparks no replies.
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Heartwarming reactions to a happy ending ❤️

Commenter calls out selfish behavior in single mom situation
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Sassy and humorous comment gets a laugh out loud reaction

Positive response to seeking advice on single motherhood.

Challenges and realities of being a single mom with a job

Healthy communication is key for successful relationships!
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To tell or not to tell? Commenters advocate for honesty.
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Positive outcome from YTA decision. Hope you get what you want

Supportive comment on navigating being a single mom in dating

Congrats on the awesome outcome!

Commenter expresses gratitude, spreading positivity ❤

Navigating dating and parenthood as a single mom by choice

Reader questions if it’s fair to deny partner fatherhood aspirations.

Last Updated on April 25, 2023 by Diply Social Team