Woman Turns Spare Bedroom into Office, In-Laws Forced to Book Hotel

Imagine having your in-laws over every other week, making it impossible for you to work or even enjoy your hobbies. That’s the situation a 28-year-old woman found herself in, as her husband’s large family started visiting frequently after lockdown ended. Feeling cramped in her own house, she decided to take matters into her own hands and converted a spare bedroom into an office/gaming room. Little did she know, this decision would spark a conflict with her husband and his family.

The House Situation

In-Laws’ Frequent Visits

Work and Hobbies Suffer

Taking Matters into Her Own Hands ️

The Big Reveal

Peace at Last ‍♀️

Husband’s Reaction

Standing Her Ground

Crossing the Line?

Pre-Lockdown Plans

Attempts at Compromise ‍♀️

Cleaning Up After Them

Husband’s Compliment ️

The Visiting Bunch ‍ ‍

Gaming and Noise

Office Conversion Sparks Family Drama ️

Tired of her in-laws’ constant visits and the chaos they bring, a woman decides to convert a spare bedroom into an office/gaming room. When her husband and his family discover the change, they’re less than thrilled. Despite her attempts at compromise, her husband demands she change it back and gives her the silent treatment. Now, she’s left wondering if she’s the one in the wrong for standing her ground and reclaiming her space. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA for turning spare room into office, but communication issues arise.

NTA for turning spare room into office, in-laws need boundaries

Husband and his family were treating OP’s house as their own NTA

OP’s husband disrespects her and tries to emotionally manipulate her. NTA

Woman turns spare bedroom into office, in-laws forced to book hotel NTA, it’s her house and she already communicated her plans.

Dearest Husband should take charge of accommodating them. NTA

In-laws complain about no spare room, get rollaway bed.

NTA for turning spare room into office, in-laws taking advantage

In-laws overstaying boundaries, OP sets rules for guests ‍ ‍ ‍

NTA for needing private office space, but communication is key

Commenter suggests husband is taking advantage of wife
for free housing and no privacy. A reply adds ‘free maid’

In-laws take over house, woman turns spare room into office

Woman repurposes room, in-laws mad. Commenters support.

NTA for turning spare room into office, but in-laws need accommodations

Partner’s need to prove himself causing strain on relationship. NTA.

In-laws treating your house like a private resort? NTA, have a serious talk and contact a lawyer.

Passive-aggressive husband’s family overstays, shames wife for creating office

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s frustration over in-laws’ visit overload

Partner’s family overstays and disrespects, NTA stands up for self

Commenter calls out OP for being too accommodating.

Woman’s in-laws take over her house, husband ignores her wishes

In-laws invade spare room, commenter suggests two yes/one no rule.

Woman turns spare room into office, in-laws forced to book hotel

Woman’s in-laws force her to book hotel despite having spare rooms. NTA.

In-law invasion! NTA takes back her space

Setting boundaries with in-laws visiting too often.

NTA stands up to in-laws expecting free room and board

Commenter suggests getting rid of Nick, drama ensues

In-laws invade woman’s workspace, husband fails to set boundaries

Commenter warns of partner’s dominance and selfishness, urges self-reflection.

Set boundaries and let him host his own family

Commenter suggests marriage therapy needed, husband and wife communication issues

Curious commenter praises OP for not being the a**hole.

Commenter thinks it’s crazy for in-laws to expect stayover. NTA.

Communication is key! ️ NTA but set boundaries with in-laws.

Drama alert! Will she take the money and run?

User suggests petty revenge on in-laws, advises reconsidering relationship balance.

Dump Nick and celebrate more space! NTA

Partner disrespecting your home? Leave ASAP. NTA.

Communication is key, even with in-laws. ESH.

Husband is the a**hole according to NTA comment

NTA. Convert spare bedroom into task specific room, in-laws overstay welcome

In-laws treating house like a B&B, NTA for setting boundaries

Setting boundaries with in-laws, NTA gets the room.

Hosting in-laws regularly is exhausting, NTA for setting boundaries

Commenter accuses in-laws of mooching off OP’s hospitality

Commenter suspects shady motives behind in-laws’ hotel booking

Commenter called out for conveniently forgetting key details

Commenter sympathizes with woman, calls husband a narcissist.

Don’t let in-laws take advantage of you and your home

Commenter questions family dynamics and hygiene in crowded living situation.

Commenter suggests confronting partner about in-laws’ behavior

Nick’s gotta go, NTA.

Dumped him for making in-laws book hotel. NTA

In-laws overstayed their welcome, NTA for reclaiming workspace

Introverted commenter suggests visiting in-laws instead, NTA

Supportive comment urges OP to prioritize her own needs and boundaries.

Spouse prioritizes large family over wife, in-laws disrespect her

In-laws treat woman’s house like a hotel, she’s not the a**hole

Boyfriend upset over her using her own house as office

In-laws banned, couples counseling needed, and don’t move house

Couple with incompatible family views should consider a temporary separation ‍ ‍ to chase ideal living arrangements

Empathetic comment calls out toxic behavior of some husbands

Partner’s family disrespects home, commenter suggests leaving partner

NTA but husband needs to respect space, counseling and boundaries

Take a break from hosting and let husband deal with in-laws