Woman REFUSES to Take In Boyfriend’s Siblings After SHOCKING Abuse Revelation

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Meet our leading lady, a 25-year-old homeowner who’s found herself in quite the predicament. She’s been dating her boyfriend, Eric, for just under a year and decided to let him move into her inherited home. But wait, there’s more! Eric’s family situation is a hot mess, and now he wants her to take in his three younger half-siblings. Talk about a relationship test! Let’s dive in and see how this emotional rollercoaster unfolds.

Moving In Together… Too Soon?

Inheriting Grandma’s House in a High COL Area

Hesitantly Agreeing to Live Together After Less Than a Year

Feeling Like It’s Too Soon But Seeing a Future Together

‍♂️ Eric’s Messy Family Situation: Dad in Prison, Addict Mom

Eric’s Three Younger Half-Siblings in Need of a Home

Kids Sleeping on Aunt’s Floor Due to Foster Home Shortage

‍♀️ Eric’s Mom Denies Boyfriend’s Actions, Won’t Leave Him

Eric Wants Me to Raise His Siblings With Him!

Feeling Bad But Not Wanting the Responsibility ‍♀️

I’d Have to Financially Support Them Without Government Help

Fighting for Two Days, Relationship Likely Over

Absolutely Not Willing to Compromise on Having the Kids

Update: Things Didn’t Go as Planned, Relationship Over

Boyfriend Flipped Out, Packed His Bags, Staying in Hotel

Feeling Terrible for His Situation and His Siblings

‍♂️ Boyfriend is Hard-Working and Kind, Lashed Out Due to Stress

He Gave Back the Key, Won’t Be Coming Back

Sad But Probably For the Best

Relationship Drama Alert: Boyfriend Wants Me to Raise His Siblings!

Well, well, well… looks like our leading lady is caught between a rock and a hard place! She’s only been with her boyfriend for less than a year, and now he’s asking her to take on the responsibility of raising his three younger half-siblings. Talk about a major commitment! She’s not willing to compromise on having the kids in her home, and who can blame her? It’s a huge burden, especially since her boyfriend can’t afford to support them financially. The internet has spoken, and the general consensus is that she’s not in the wrong. ‍♀️ But wait, there’s a plot twist! Her boyfriend flipped out when she showed him the post and packed his bags. Now their relationship is over, and she’s left feeling sad but knowing it’s probably for the best. Talk about a wild ride! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this emotional rollercoaster.

NTA, but not equipped to take on three kids. Relationship risk.

Don’t sacrifice yourself for his problems. NTA

NTA. It’s too much to ask of you to raise 3 kids and be financially responsible for them. Check state laws and see if there is a notice period required to remove your boyfriend from your home. Relationship may not survive.

Taking in abused siblings is a massive responsibility. You’re NTA

Raising a trauma riddled child is hard enough. Foster homes with trauma informed training are better equipped.

Set boundaries with caution before it’s too late ⏰

NTA, but boyfriend should work with social worker for guardianship

NTA, it’s not your responsibility. Specialized care and finances needed.

Legal advice warns of potential tenant rights for abused siblings.

Was Eric using you to get his siblings in? NTA

Self-care first! A reminder we all need

Sarcastic suggestion to move out, agrees with OP’s decision.

Stand your ground , you’re NTA. Eric needs to respect your no.

NTA stands up for herself and offers helpful advice.

Boyfriend should become a licensed foster parent to access funding

Retired psychotherapist advises against taking on boyfriend’s siblings.

Boyfriend’s pushy behavior warrants eviction. NTA

Setting boundaries to protect oneself from traumatized children. NTA

Supportive reply to someone refusing to take on boyfriend’s siblings.

NTA – Don’t take on other people’s burdens, takers lack boundaries

Boyfriend wants you to carry his entire family? NTA

Don’t burn your life down over this. He might unfairly think you’re a monster but only because he expects you to do most of the raising.

Don’t be guilted into taking care of him and his siblings

Woman refuses to take in boyfriend’s siblings after abuse, NTA ‍ ‍

NTA. Boyfriend trying to baby trap, drop him while you can.

NTA. Financially unprepared to care for boyfriend’s siblings

NTA. Foster care may be a better option . Reconsider relationship.

NTA. Boyfriend’s worldview shaped by addict mother, you’re not obligated.

NTA. Providing a loving home for 3 kids is hard work

State intervention may be the best option for abused siblings

Stand your ground . Boyfriend is wrong to even ask.

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for prioritizing your well-being.

Don’t become a mother of 4. Consult a lawyer and end it

NTA. Refusing to take in your bf’s 3 siblings. Unreasonable request.

NTA! Run! Your relationship has become transactional and skewed

NTA for refusing to take in boyfriend’s siblings. Time to move on.

New relationship + 3 kids = potential nightmare situation

Compassionate advice on handling a difficult situation. NTA

Get out now! His family will drain you emotionally and financially.

Setting boundaries and suggesting legal custody with empathetic advice

NTA. GF not obligated to house BF’s siblings after abuse.

Taking in entire family after a year? NTA for refusing.

Potential childcare issues arise in comment about not taking siblings in.

Boundaries in relationships are important.

User questions boyfriend’s financial struggles and advises against siblings moving in. NTA

Taking in abused siblings requires legal protection, therapy and planning. NTA.

Breaking up is hard, but taking on his siblings is harder

Legal obstacles and red flags make this a difficult situation. NTA

Dump the boyfriend, NTA for not taking in siblings

Dump him ASAP! NTA for not taking in his siblings

Suggesting to become a licensed kinship placement and accept help

NTA. Don’t set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm

Protect your assets and break it off with him

Don’t be a**hole, avoid unnecessary drama and trouble. NTA.

NTA. Don’t take in the children! It’s a mistake of epic proportions. Be wise. Be strong.

Supportive comment advises against taking in traumatized children for boyfriend’s siblings.

Not her responsibility. Boyfriend should find temporary housing. NTA

Dating for a year doesn’t equal being a foster parent

Partner or parasite? Commenter calls out mooching boyfriend.

Protect your assets , be cautious of de facto relationships.

Protect yourself and the kids, tell him to get out. NTA

Boyfriend’s siblings’ care is on him, not on you NTA

Not the a**hole for not taking in boyfriend’s siblings.

A tough but fair decision. NTA.

NTA prioritizes children’s safety over naive boyfriend’s wishes

Taking in boyfriend’s siblings is an emotional Kobayashi Maru. NAH.

Not obligated to take in boyfriend’s siblings. He should step up

You can’t fix everyone else’s problems, it’s okay to prioritize yourself ‍♀️

Taking on kids is a huge responsibility. You’re NTA.

Encouraging breakup and offering a helpful solution.

NTA stands her ground against boyfriend’s irresponsible behavior.

NTA. Leave now. You can’t support his siblings alone.

Teacher advises against taking in boyfriend’s siblings due to trauma.

NTA, but red flag that boyfriend expects you to absorb his problems

NTA commenter raises important questions about boyfriend’s plan

Protecting oneself and setting boundaries is not selfish. NTA

Fostering is a lot of work; breaking up may be best

NTA. The bf’s request is a red flag. Don’t be conned.

Take note: you are not responsible for others’ poor decisions

Empathetic response to refusing to take in traumatized children.

Starting a relationship is hard enough Adding 3 kids? NTA.

Empathetic comment applauds bravery and offers support to poster

Be cautious when committing to someone with a dysfunctional family

Think twice before committing to supporting someone else’s family

NTA suggests becoming foster parents, calls out excuses and risks.

Don’t let yourself get pulled into that mess.

Last Updated on March 22, 2024 by Diply Social Team