We’ve all heard the phrase ‘in sickness and in health,’ but what happens when the love is gone, and all that’s left is the sickness? This is the predicament a 34-year-old woman finds herself in, as she navigates the rocky terrain of an imminent divorce. With her soon-to-be-ex husband down with the flu and demanding her care, she’s left wondering: should she step in or step away?
Divorce in Progress, Sickness Strikes!

Sick Call to the Rescue… Or Not?

A Plea for Help, A Shocking Response

A Legal Obligation or a Step Too Far? ♀️

A Stand Taken, A Relationship Judged ️

Family Fallout: Sides Taken, Silence Ensues

The Backstory: A Marriage Marred by Disrespect

A Child’s Echo, A Mother’s Wake-Up Call

Therapy: A One-Sided Attempt at Healing ️

Family Values: A Generational Divide

A History of Neglect: The Tables Have Turned

Hospitalized and Alone: A Testimony of Absence

Caught in a Flu Fiasco: A Divorce Drama Unfolds
Caught in the crossfire of duty and disdain, our heroine finds herself at the center of a heated debate. Should she nurse her soon-to-be-ex husband back to health, or is she right to keep her distance? With a history of disrespect and neglect, her decision seems justified, but her parents’ disapproval adds another layer of complexity. Let’s see how the world weighs in on this tangled tale of sickness, separation, and the struggle to define one’s responsibilities.
NTA: Commenter refuses to nurse sick soon-to-be-ex, parents disapprove

NTA. Your parents disapprove of divorce but prioritize the kids.

NTA. You have a legal and moral responsibility to take care of your kids. The ex’s audacity is amusing

“Heartless” soon-to-be-ex-wife refuses to nurse sick husband. NTA!

“Ex thinks being a legal wife means she’s obligated? NTA!”

NTA, parents suck! Congrats on almost being divorced!

Mom projecting issues, parents siding with tradition. NTA.

NTA. Divorce and laughter, a justified and satisfying decision

Throw a divorce party to celebrate getting rid of this a**hole!

NTA. Divorce doubts gone. ‘Legal wife’ sounds medieval.

Heartless or justified? Woman refuses to nurse sick soon-to-be-ex.

Doubts about his flu and suspicious calls? NTA for refusing!

“What a clown. ‘I have testicles, and we aren’t divorced yet, so it’s your responsibility to nurse me back to health.’ NTA by a long shot.”

Parents upset over not caring for soon-to-be-ex. NTA, complicated family.

NTA refuses to send kids to sick ex, mom’s questionable beliefs.

NTA. Whiney AH expects ex-wife to nurse him. Red flags everywhere!

Divorce your family too? You’re not the a**hole.

Refusing to nurse ex: NTA, he’s a big boy!

NTA stands up for herself and receives support

“NTA at all I’m dying at what a baby he is though either way I would definitely get the kids so they don’t also get sick”

NTA: No need to nurse your soon-to-be-ex. Let parents help!

Single mom battles illness while ex shirks responsibility.

Savage response! Prioritizing the kids over the sick ex.

Parents expect grown man to be coddled? NTA stands firm!

“NTA. Your husband’s betrayal after your mom nursed him? Heartless.”

NTA, legally separated. No obligation to nurse him.

NTA: Giving only to the worthy

Divorce due to disrespect and name-calling. Heartbreaking impact on children.

NTA: Ex demands ex-wife be his nurse? Eye-rolling entitlement!

Setting boundaries with soon-to-be-ex: NTA, parents are wild

Married a child? NTA – legal decisions and consequences.

“Wife’s refusal to nurse sick husband sparks heated debate!”

Ex-husband lost right to be cared for, NTA!

Commenter defends woman’s decision to not nurse her soon-to-be-ex

NTA: Divorce drama with a mysterious twist. Trash him away!

Is man-flu really worse than normal flu? Let’s discuss!

NTA: No nursing for the soon-to-be-ex. ♀️

Parents lack support, but OP justified in divorce decision. NTA

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s difficult situation and offers support.

NTA: Separated, no obligations. Culture clash makes it funny
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Cut ties with toxic family. Surround yourself with positivity. ✨

Ex-wife refuses to nurse sick soon-to-be-ex. NTA, obviously.

NTA comment shuts down haters with a sassy twist!

Heartless or justified? The verdict: Not the a**hole!

Divorce justified, no a**hole here.

NTA: A grateful mom appreciates help when she’s sick

Toxic ex and unsupportive parents? Time to cut ties!

NTA refuses to nurse soon-to-be-ex. Parents need a reality check!

Ex-husband drama: No responsibility to him. Take care of kids

NTA. Take care of your kids, f**k him and your parents.

NTA: Ex treating you as property? Yikes, this is disturbing.

NTA. Responsibility ends with child care. Parents are confusing.

Divorcing idiot: NTA, this is why relationships fail.

Refusing to nurse sick ex: NTA, family and ex are

Heartless or justified? The battle of custody and entitlement.

NTA: Protect your kids from his gross flu germs!

Ex refuses to let go, but she’s moving on. NTA

Hilarious response to a heartless situation!

Divorce justified, parents need to step up.

Ex’s sick toddler? Woman refuses to nurse. Hilarious!

NTA: No duty to nurse soon-to-be-ex, parents need perspective

“Legal responsibility”? Your ex is a putz. NTA

Divorce your parents while you’re at it

Divorce confirmed as best idea. Kids should avoid contagious dad.

NTA. STBEx and parents need to suck it up.

Breaking free from a sexist past. You’re a hero!

NTA. Is your soon-to-be-ex controlling or mentally unstable?
