A 19-year-old woman finds herself in a dilemma when her boyfriend asks if his friends, who don’t like her, can spend the night at her apartment while she’s away. Despite her boyfriend’s insistence, she stands her ground and refuses, leading to a heated disagreement. Was she right to deny them access to her apartment? Dive into the story to find out.
The Apartment Situation

Family Emergency

The Friends’ Dislike

The Cruise Conflict

Telling the Truth

The Request

Her Response

Boyfriend’s Annoyance

Standing Her Ground

Her Apartment, Her Rules?
A 19-year-old woman refuses to let her boyfriend’s friends, who don’t like her, stay at her apartment while she’s away with her family. The friends’ dislike stems from a past conflict involving a cruise. Despite her boyfriend’s annoyance, she stands her ground and denies them access to her apartment. Was she right to do so? Share your thoughts and reactions.
Commenter praises OP’s independence and advises her to leave toxic boyfriend.

NTA stands firm against boyfriend’s friends using her apartment

Protect your space! NTA.

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for prioritizing your comfort.

Woman stands her ground against boyfriend’s entitled friends

Commenter advises OP to reconsider relationship with disrespectful boyfriend

Boyfriend’s friends hate her, but is she really the AH?

NTA for refusing BF’s friends to stay at her apartment

Ex’s friends over without permission, NTA. Did he defend you?

Respect is key: Woman stands up for herself and her space

Commenter calls out OP’s infidelity, OP’s boyfriend’s loyalty questioned ♀️

Stand your ground! NTA for not letting strangers in

Empathetic comment supports person’s decision to prioritize self-respect.

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for prioritizing your comfort

Boyfriend’s lying friends? NTA for refusing them entry

Girlfriend stands up for herself and calls out boyfriend’s friends

Stand your ground! Your apartment, your rules

Boyfriend’s disrespectful friends want to stay at her place. NTA.

Boyfriend’s friends refuse to hang out with her, NTA for refusing.

Boyfriend’s friends dislike her, NTA for refusing to host them

Boyfriend’s entitled behavior: NTA for not letting his friends stay

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself.

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself

Stand your ground! ♀️ Your apartment, your rules.
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NTA for not letting boyfriend’s friends stay at her apartment

NTA. Liability concerns for letting boyfriend’s friends stay at apartment.

Girlfriend refuses boyfriend’s friends from staying over. NTA wins.
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NTA: Partner’s friends dislike you, don’t let them stay over

Good for her! Don’t let anyone disrespect your space.

Respect is key . NTA for not letting disrespectful friends stay.

Woman stands her ground on apartment rules, not the a**hole

NTA stands her ground against immature boyfriend’s friends

Stand your ground! Your apartment, your rules
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Woman stands her ground and is not the a**hole!

Protect your space . NTA for setting boundaries.

Woman justified in not letting boyfriend’s friends stay at her apartment

Stand your ground! Don’t let his friends disrespect you

Boyfriend’s entitled friends want to crash at her place. NTA.

Girlfriend refuses boyfriend’s friends, internet approves

Stand your ground! Your apartment, your rules

NTA! OP has the right to decide who enters her apartment

Stand your ground! Your boyfriend’s friends are being petty. ♀️

Supportive comment receives love:

Setting boundaries and speaking the truth.

Stand your ground! You’re not the a**hole here

Is it fair for a partner to prioritize friends over you?

Boyfriend’s disrespectful behavior towards girlfriend’s boundaries

Your apartment, your rules. Boyfriend’s entitlement is a red flag

Boyfriend’s friends hate her, but he wants them over. NTA.

Woman rightfully refuses boyfriend’s unfriendly friends from her apartment.

NTA wins! Woman justified in not letting boyfriend’s friends stay

NTA for not letting boyfriend’s friends stay. Time to leave?

Don’t let petty people mess with your things

Protecting her space and belongings. NTA wins this round!

Respect your space and boundaries, NTA

Protect your space and peace, change your locks

NTA. You pay for it, you call the shots

Fair retaliation: NTA comment sparks no further discussion.

Girlfriend refuses boyfriend’s friends, internet agrees she’s NTA
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Woman stands up for herself and refuses to be taken advantage of by boyfriend’s friends.

Setting boundaries is important, NTA for not letting them stay

Stand your ground! ♀️ Your boyfriend needs to grow up.

Don’t want strangers in your space? NTA!

Boyfriend’s entitled behavior and rude friends: NTA for saying no

Setting boundaries with guests: NTA stands her ground

Boyfriend’s friends cut her off over minor issue. NTA for refusing.

Boyfriend’s friends want to use your apartment? NTA, laugh in their face

Setting boundaries in relationships is important
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Stand your ground! NTA. Your house, your rules.

Protect your space and your peace. NTA

Respect your boundaries and don’t let others take advantage
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