Picture this: you’re a 26-year-old woman who had to take her sick 3-year-old son to the hospital, causing you to be late for work. You text your boss to explain the situation, but when you arrive at work, he claims he never received your message and demands to see your phone. What would you do? ♀️ This woman found herself in that exact situation, and she refused to hand over her phone, citing privacy concerns. But was she in the right, or just being stubborn? Read on to find out!
Sick Child and a Text to the Boss

Boss Questions Her Lateness

The Missing Text Message

Check *His* Phone?

A Demand for Privacy

Accusations of Faking

Standing Her Ground

Assistant Joins the Fray

Sent Home Over a Text

Alternative Solution Rejected

Privacy vs. Compliance

A Battle Over Privacy and Trust
In a world where our phones hold our most intimate conversations, one woman found herself in a standoff with her boss over her right to privacy. After taking her sick son to the hospital, she texted her boss to explain her lateness, but he claimed he never received the message and demanded to see her phone. She refused, offering to show him the text instead, but he insisted on checking it himself. The argument escalated, and she was sent home. Was she right to stand her ground, or should she have just handed over her phone? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Boss demands phone, OP refuses, commenters support OP’s privacy

Respectful employee values privacy over boss’s trust issues
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Boss overstepping privacy boundaries, NTA for refusing phone access.

Boss wanted to delete text? NTA for not handing over.

Boss acting weird? Time to job hunt ♀️

Boss demanding employee’s phone is a massive invasion of privacy. #NotTheAsshole

Boss demands phone check, commenter calls it weird. NTA.

Employee stands up for privacy rights against boss.

Boss has no right to access personal phone, NTA.

Assistant suspects boss has shady reasons for phone request

Employee stands up for privacy rights against demanding boss

Privacy wins over nosy boss, NTA and HR-bound.

Report boss’s misconduct to HR and follow sickness policy. NTA
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Boss crosses line by demanding employee’s phone

Boss tries to delete message, woman stands her ground. #PrivacyWins
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Employee stands up for privacy and provides alternative solution.

NTA stands up to boss’s invasion of privacy. HR needed.

Protecting privacy or unnecessary stubbornness?

Employee stands up for privacy and offers reasonable compromise.

Boss demands phone check? NTA for standing up for privacy.

Stand up for your privacy and seek a healthier work environment

Employee refuses to give phone to boss due to lack of trust. NTA.

Employee stands up for privacy rights, internet supports decision.

Boss demands phone, employee stands up for privacy rights. NTA.

Standing up to a bully boss NTA
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Respect your privacy, not your boss’s curiosity.

A helpful suggestion for phone privacy dilemma

Employee stands up to boss’s inappropriate demand. NTA.

Protect your privacy, don’t give in to unreasonable requests

NTA. HR rules should prevent bullying. Look for new job.

Documenting workplace incidents: important advice for employees

Employee stands up to boss on privacy concerns. NTA.
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Boss accused of deleting text to frame employee

NTA, terrible boss, find a new job. Screenshot > personal phone

Privacy rights: NTA stands up to boss’s unreasonable request
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Boss demanding phone is suspicious, NTA should involve HR

Employee stands up for privacy rights against boss’s invasion

Boss wanted to delete message? NTA stands her ground
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NTA stands up to invasive boss, seeks HR intervention.

Boss accuses employee of lying, NTA for standing up for self.

Boss demands employee’s phone, but she stands up for privacy.

Boss demands phone, employee stands up for privacy. NTA!

Protect your privacy and seek help from HR or attorney.

Employee stands up to boss, HR complaint suggested

Keep evidence of the conversation while smoothing the misunderstanding.

Employee stands up for privacy rights against boss, NTA

NTA, but why not just screenshot and resend with timestamp?

Protecting privacy at work: one employee’s bold move

Boss wants phone, commenter says NTA, accuses boss of sabotage

Boss demands phone, commenter advises reporting creepy behavior.

Creative solution to phone privacy debate

Boss demands phone, refuses to believe message. Commenter calls creepy.

Privacy matters! Boss’s response was sketchy

Employee stands up to boss’s unreasonable demand. #PrivacyMatters
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Respect privacy and call if missing work

Consult an employment lawyer before contacting HR for protection

Boss’s power play over phone privacy. NTA. Record interactions.

Asserting privacy rights at work: NTA seeks legal advice

Protect your privacy and seek legal advice
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Suggests a compromise and questions the omission, NTA.

Autocorrect strikes again, NTA refuses to hand over phone

Using company email could prevent privacy disputes. NTA.

Protecting privacy or being stubborn? HR might have answers
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Boss wanted to delete text, NTA for not handing phone

Protect your privacy! Check your phone records

Privacy rights upheld in workplace dispute

Protect your privacy and stand your ground. #NTA

Employee stands up for privacy rights and seeks legal help

Last Updated on February 13, 2024 by Diply Social Team