Woman Refuses to Buy Essentials for BF After He Blows Paycheck on Night Out

We’ve all heard of relationships where one partner is financially responsible, while the other is a bit more… reckless. In this case, a woman and her boyfriend of four years both work at the same place and split their bills. However, her boyfriend has a history of blowing his paycheck when he goes out with his friends. She warned him not to do it again, but he didn’t listen. Now, he’s asking her to buy his basic essentials, and she’s had enough. ‍♀️

Equal Paychecks, Unequal Spending

Splitting Expenses, Sort of…

Cars and Fines: His Responsibility

A Night Out with Friends

Promises Made, Promises Broken

The Aftermath: Empty Wallet, Full Regret

The Cost of a Good Time

Asking for More

Expensive Taste, Empty Pockets

The Cost of His Demands

Her Priorities: Sister’s Wedding ‍♀️

Standing Her Ground ✊

His Reaction: Accusations

Enough is Enough: Drawing the Line

After her boyfriend blew his paycheck partying with friends, this woman decided to put her foot down. Despite his demands for expensive essentials and lunch items, she refused to give in, prioritizing her own needs for once. She had warned him before, but he didn’t listen. Now, he’s accusing her of being an a**hole, but she’s standing her ground. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Partner’s mental health may have caused financial irresponsibility. NTA.

Savage NTA comment suggests leaving BF to his mom

NTA but dump his butt . He’s irresponsible and a risk.

NTA, but why is he spending so much on toothpaste?

NTA. Don’t cover for him. Tell his friend to pay up

Dump his a** as you deserve better

BF’s excuses for partying all night sound like BS. NTA.

NTA. Red flags all over. Get out of this relationship!

Dumpster fire boyfriend blows paycheck on night out. NTA for refusing essentials.

$30 on gas for one trip? NTA, this guy’s a negative.

Partner’s poor financial choices lead to essential item sacrifice. NTA.

Consequences for BF’s actions, but why stay with him?

NTA for setting boundaries and evaluating future with financially irresponsible BF

Keep your finances separate and think carefully before changing it

Commenter suggests financial incompatibility and advises reevaluating relationship.

Mom refuses to enable son’s reckless spending. NTA confirmed

Don’t be his mom! NTA for not buying his essentials

Financial issues can be a major relationship strain . Is it worth it?

Commenter advises breaking up with careless boyfriend

NTA teaches BF financial responsibility.

Commenters discuss the high cost of transportation in their areas

Expensive toothpaste, NTA judgement. The comment section is amused.

NTA for not buying essentials after BF blows paycheck

Don’t settle for financial irresponsibility Find a better partner

Cut him off! NTA suggests tough love for irresponsible BF.

Commenter advises OP to break up with financially irresponsible boyfriend

Don’t be an ATM! Let him learn his lesson

Dump his a** and save your money for self-care

BF repeatedly blows paycheck, GF refuses to enable him. NTA.

Savage response to BF’s reckless spending

Commenter questions exorbitant body wash expense, sparks discussion.

Navigating life and having fun, but don’t take on responsibilities.

NTA refuses to buy BF essentials after he blew paycheck

Commenter shocked by low pay in article about financial dispute.

Drop him like he drops money NTA

Savage yet practical response to irresponsible boyfriend

Commenter questions long-term compatibility with financially irresponsible partner

Why she’s TA for staying with a guy who’s bad with money

Commenter calls out terrible boyfriend, earns YTA judgment

Dating a hobosexual? NTA suggests it’s not worth it.

Commenter warns of danger in humorous way with emojis.

Commenter advises to find a new roommate, bf is irresponsible

BF blows paycheck, expects GF to pay. Commenter says NTA

NTA for warning and not buying essentials after BF’s mistake

BF blows paycheck on night out, expects GF to pay for him. ‍♂️

NTA. Money issues can strain relationships. Have a serious talk.

Think twice before marrying him! Don’t give him any money! ❌

NTA. Actions have consequences. No top-of-the-line for overspenders.

Don’t enable bad habits, NTA sets boundaries

Don’t be an ATM! ‍♀️ Set boundaries and stick to them.

Support for girlfriend who refused to buy essentials for BF

Dump him and find someone who respects you!

Financial incompatibility can doom a relationship

Don’t let your boyfriend disrespect and use you. NTA

Curious commenter questions logic behind boyfriend’s expensive bar trip.

Don’t be an anchor, let him learn from failure

Woman stands up to forgetful boyfriend in public, teaches lesson

Does he have a history of financial reciprocity?

Sassy response to irresponsible BF’s request for top-shelf essentials ‍♀️

Friend spends paycheck on himself, NTA for refusing essentials

Questioning the $30 gas cost with a hint of sarcasm

Being financially responsible is key #NTA

Australians compare gas prices, baffled by BF’s spending habits

Commenter compares their frugal spending to BF’s paycheck-to-paycheck lifestyle.

Comment section full of savage roasts

Partner’s poor money management skills causing financial and mental strain.

Dump him! You deserve better than a childish partner.

Partner not a bank, NTA for refusing to bail out.