Imagine this: You’ve had two kids, survived three difficult pregnancies, and finally decided that your family is complete. You’re looking forward to a future without morning sickness, swollen ankles, and heartburn. But then, your sister, who’s been struggling with infertility, drops a bombshell. She wants you to be a surrogate for her dream family. And not just with her egg, but with yours too. Sounds like the plot of a dramatic movie, right? But for one woman, this is real life. Let’s dive into her story…
Family of Four: No More, No Less
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Pregnancy: A Battle Hard Fought
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The Big Family Dream
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The Surrogacy Suggestion
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The Bombshell Request
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The Unexpected Backlash
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The Unanswered Question: How Many?
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Caught in a Family Feud: Selfish or Sensible?
So, our brave mom of two is stuck in a family feud. Her sister, desperate for a family of her own, has made a request that’s left her reeling. She’s being asked to be a surrogate, but with a twist: they want the baby to be biologically hers too. And if that wasn’t enough, her own mother is siding with her sister, calling her selfish for refusing. And the cherry on top? They haven’t even clarified how many kids they want from her. Could it be all five they originally planned for? It’s a tangled web of family ties, fertility, and a firm refusal. Let’s see what the internet thinks about this sticky situation… ️
NTA. Refusing to be a surrogate for sister’s dream family.

NTA – Reasonable response to sister’s selfish surrogacy request

NTA: Medical disqualification and cost concerns make surrogacy unreasonable.

NTA! She wants your biological child, not just surrogacy. ♀️

NTA- It’s your body. No one can expect or force you to go through a pregnancy that you don’t want.

NTA: Your body, your choice. Don’t let them guilt trip you!

NTA. Your body, your choice.
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User refuses to be surrogate, defends decision against family.

“NTA. Your sister’s request is selfish and puts your health at risk. Therapy needed.”

NTA for declining surrogacy. Your sister has other options.

NTA. Your body, your choice. They should respect your decision

NTA: Refusing to be a surrogate for selfish family members

NTA: Medical history and potential legal complications make it sensible.

Empowering choice: Your uterus, your decision.

Sister’s entitlement to body sparks debate. NTA stands firm.
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NTA for refusing to be a surrogate. Your body, your choice.

Pregnancy sucks! NTA for refusing to be a surrogate

“NTA! Nobody is entitled to your womb. Super creepy situation.”

NTA OP refuses to donate eggs, citing family resemblance concerns

NTA: Exploring other options and setting boundaries with family

NTA: Prioritizing your health and choices over family expectations.
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NTA – Surrogacy risks, no payment, and uncomfortable with BIL’s sperm.
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NTA: Your body, your choice. Pregnancy is tough. Stand your ground!

NTA. Sister’s entitlement and mom’s judgment make this a tough decision.
