Imagine having two kids and struggling through three difficult pregnancies, only to be asked to become a surrogate for your sister’s family. That’s exactly what happened to one woman who has already experienced the hardships of pregnancy, including severe morning sickness and other complications. Her sister and brother-in-law, who are unable to have children, have their hearts set on a big family and now want her to help make it happen. But is it fair to ask someone to go through that ordeal again? Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story.
Two Kids and Tough Pregnancies
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Pregnancy Struggles
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Sister’s Big Family Dreams
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Heartbreaking News
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Sister’s Adoption Dilemma
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Surrogacy Solution?
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An Unsettling Request
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Family Tensions Rise
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Five Kids?
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Standing Her Ground, but at What Cost?
Our protagonist is caught in a whirlwind of emotions as her sister, brother-in-law, and even her own mother pressure her to become a surrogate for their family. Having already endured the trials and tribulations of difficult pregnancies, she’s adamant about not going through it again. But with her family’s dream of a big family on the line, tensions are rising, and accusations of selfishness are being thrown her way. As the drama unfolds, it’s clear that this family has some tough decisions to make. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Sister and mother are being unreasonable and disrespectful.

NTA for refusing to be a surrogate for sister’s family . Commenters suggest adoption or real surrogate instead.

Being a surrogate is not a joke, respect women’s autonomy

NTA. Sister wants biological child, not surrogacy. Commenters agree.

NTA- You can’t force someone to risk their health for you

Your body, your choice. NTA for refusing to be surrogate

NTA. Short and simple, OP’s body, OP’s choice

Body autonomy matters. Op should provide a list of reasons.

No one is entitled to your womb except you . Surrogacy is a huge commitment.

NTA for declining to be a surrogate for your sister’s family

Respect your body and your decision. NTA

NTA. Surrogacy is a personal choice, not an obligation

Surrogacy not recommended for family members. NTA, protect yourself

Empowering response to pressure to be a surrogate for family

Being a surrogate is tough, no one should be forced.

Infertility survivor supports OP’s decision to not be surrogate

Sister not entitled to anyone’s body
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Woman refuses to be sister’s surrogate, calls out creepy situation

OP’s sister asks for surrogacy, but OP refuses. INFO: Egg donation?

Suggests alternative options, questions if it’s her sister’s eggs.

Prioritizing self-care in surrogacy decision
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NTA – Surrogacy is a big ask, tell them to pound sand
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Being a surrogate is not an obligation . Sister and mother are TA.

Commenter empathizes with OP, suggests adoption, and criticizes infertility stigma.
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NTA. Sister and husband’s anger at denial is uncalled for. Mom’s name-calling is jacked up. Don’t let them guilt you into it

Being a surrogate for your sister is not a small favor

Sister demands surrogate’s child. NTA stands up for herself

Being pressured to be a surrogate? NTA, pregnancy is tough

Sister’s selfish request for surrogacy, NTA stands up.

Body autonomy wins: Woman refuses to be sister’s surrogate

NTA for refusing to be a surrogate for sister’s family
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Woman pressured to be a surrogate for 5 kids. NTA stands firm

Woman rightfully refuses sister’s request to adopt her child

Sister’s request for surrogacy is selfish and medically unsound. NTA

Suggests alternative options and calls out grandma’s motives.

Commenter calls out entitled behavior in surrogacy situation

Sister pressures woman to be surrogate, but she’s NTA

Being a surrogate is not an easy task

Body autonomy prevails. Medical history may prevent surrogacy. NTA.

Sister wants her to be a surrogate, but she’s NTA.

Body autonomy is important. Being a surrogate is not mandatory

Offering her eggs could be a better compromise

User calls out sister’s selfishness in surrogacy request

NTA. You are not a baby-making factory

Being a surrogate for your sister’s family? NTA, but think twice
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Sarcastic NTA comment suggests Handmaid’s Tale vibes, offers comeback questions.

NTA. It’s your body and your choice. Family should understand.

Body autonomy prevails. *The Handmaid’s Tale* vibes, anyone else?

Politely declining surrogacy request, NTA. They’re TA for getting angry.

Weird surrogacy arrangement, NTA for refusing.

Renting someone’s body for 9 months? That’s crazytown

NTA for not wanting to use egg and womb for sister’s family

Sister and husband are self-centered, tell them to fly

Standing up for bodily autonomy. You go, NTA!

Adoption is a viable option, NTA for prioritizing health

Woman declines to be surrogate, sister’s family oblivious to biology

Don’t let manipulative family pressure you into surrogacy.

NTA, family is insane for pressuring you to be surrogate

Body autonomy matters. Refusing to be a surrogate is valid

Surrogacy isn’t cheap, and neither is your time and suffering

Last Updated on June 15, 2023 by Diply Social Team