Meet a woman who’s never been the maternal type, except when it comes to her dog. Little kids gross her out, and she has no desire to hold your baby. While she admires those who choose motherhood, it’s just not for her. She and her husband share the same views and have discussed adopting a child when they’re both emotionally and mentally ready. However, her decision to undergo a bilateral salpingectomy to prevent pregnancy has ignited a family feud.
No Maternal Instincts Here

Admiration for Moms, But Not for Me

A United Front with Hubby

Pregnancy Fears

The Big Decision: Bilateral Salpingectomy

Why Not a Vasectomy?

Adoption Plans and Family Reactions

Mom’s Disapproval

Stepdad’s Creepy Jokes

Family Accusations of Selfishness

Undermining Her Choices

Feeling Guilty?

Seeking Validation

Grateful for Support

Growing Up with a Controlling Mom

Family Feud Over Pregnancy Prevention
As our heroine stands her ground, her mom and stepdad accuse her of being selfish for not wanting to have kids. They seem to be more concerned about having grandkids than respecting her choices. But she’s not backing down! After seeking advice and support, she’s more confident than ever in her decision. It’s time for her to break free from her controlling mom’s guilt trips and live her life on her own terms. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Empowerment! Your body, your choice!

NTA for choosing not to have kids. Stand your ground!

Go for it! Just make sure you’re absolutely certain beforehand.

NTA: Your life, your choice! Don’t let others pressure you

Surgery decision: yours alone. Shut down inappropriate baby pressure!

NTA. Women face societal pressure to have kids. Self-determination matters

NTA! Your body, your choice!

NTA, got tubes tied, sleeping better. Mom wants grandkids. Adopt!

Controversial comment sparks debate on parenthood and personal priorities

NTA! Your body, your choice! Stick it to the relatives!

Laparoscopic tubal ligation: a less traumatic and quicker recovery option!

NTA: Choosing not to have kids sparks family drama

NTA recommends r/childfree, sparks positive response
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Stand your ground! Don’t let them pressure you into anything.

Mom and in-law’s selfishness sparks family drama

Avoiding pressure to have kids

Empowered and responsible decision-making. Don’t let judgment bring you down!

NTA: Live your life, make your own decisions!

NTA! No pressure to bless parents with grandchildren

NTA. No explanation needed.
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Choosing not to have kids: guilt, family pressure, and boundaries
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NTA: Embrace your choice! Your body, your life, your happiness

r/childfree support for woman avoiding pregnancy

Empowerment! You have the right to control your own body

NTA – Join the childfree community on r/Childfree!

Mom’s baby fever tantrum backfires, convinces you to be childfree

NTA, your body, your choice. No need for unwanted children

NTA. Embrace the childfree life and avoid MIL drama

Body autonomy wins! You’re definitely not the a**hole

NTA, but be cautious! Ask your doctor about tube reconnection.

Last Updated on January 31, 2024 by Diply Social Team