We all want the best for our significant others, right? But what happens when you discover that their own family is manipulating them? One woman found herself in this exact situation when she realized her boyfriend’s parents were lying to him for their own gain. She decided to speak up, but now she’s questioning if she did the right thing. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story and see what went down…
First Time Poster, Here’s the Story

Happily Living Together

The Perfect Match

A Shady Homeschooling Situation

Abusing the System

Boyfriend’s Struggles

Sheltered Life

Parents’ Manipulation

Living Lavishly, But Claiming Broke

The Truth Comes Out

The Aftermath

Family Ties Strained by Deceit
So, our brave girlfriend decided to expose her boyfriend’s parents’ lies, revealing that they were using him for their benefit. She couldn’t stand by and watch them manipulate him any longer. But now, she’s left wondering if she should’ve kept quiet or continued trying to help him see the truth. The situation has caused tension, but was it worth it? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Partner’s honesty helps person realize childhood neglect, not poverty. NTA

Boyfriend’s parents kept him uneducated and exploited him for labor. NTA.

Encouraging response to exposing deception with a hint of skepticism

NTA commenter suggests financial classes for terrible in-laws.

NTA for exposing abuse, but boyfriend needs therapy for healing

NTA. Exposing parents’ deception to boyfriend was the right thing

Helpful comment suggests Khan Academy for boyfriend’s education

Home equity can be used for borrowing money, but parents are AH.
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Encouraging support for revealing boyfriend’s parents’ deception with caution.

Breaking free from financial and emotional abuse is tough

Encourage financial literacy for boyfriend, gently question parents’ actions.

OP is NTA for exposing neglectful parents and helping boyfriend.

Boyfriend’s financial support of his parents affects their future together.

Breaking free from a cult child.

Educating the boyfriend and standing up against deception. #NTA

Exposing lies: NTA, but honesty can be uncomfortable for some ♀️

Encouraging advice for someone in a similar situation

NTA, but beware of financial deception and toxic in-laws

Comment suggests checking credit report for financial manipulation suspicion.

Woman exposes boyfriend’s parents’ deception, but all parties s**k here.

Encouraging response to NTA comment about boyfriend’s readiness for relationship

Approach gently and seek support from homeschool subreddit

Exposing deception with evidence. Not the a**hole.

A lighthearted comment section with a Water Boy reference

Boyfriend’s experience with neglectful parents, NTA for exposing deception.

NTA, but be cautious about becoming a replacement parent. Set boundaries.

Debating the validity of accusations in home loan fraud case

Encouraging comment suggests therapy and education for boyfriend’s betterment.

Clever suggestion to outsmart deceptive boyfriend’s parents

Commenter suggests a possible way the boyfriend’s parents could be borrowing money. NTA.

Expose the truth with receipts

Be cautious in exposing manipulations, let him come to his own conclusions.

Communicate issues maturely, stand your ground with future in-laws.

Suggests a delicate approach to exposing deception, using manipulation against them. NTA

Exposing the truth about the boyfriend’s parents’ finances.

Expose the truth! Stand up against abusers. NTA.

Dark family secrets revealed on “Welcome to Plathville” show

Friendship over family? NTA prioritizes friend’s well-being

Helpful advice on exposing financial deception without being confrontational.

Standing up for what’s right and doing it tactfully. #NTA

Supportive comment encourages gentle approach to exposing deception.

Honesty is the best policy. She did the right thing.

Concerned commenter questions boyfriend’s parents’ honesty and financial responsibility.

Breaking the shelf of deception, gently. ️♀️

Financial advice and emotional support for abused partner

Think twice before committing to someone with deceptive in-laws.
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Supportive comment suggests therapy and education for boyfriend’s recovery.

Chosen family over blood ties.

Living beyond means: NTA calls out family friend’s deception

Keep pushing for the truth, you’re NTA in this situation.

NTA, but boyfriend’s parents are selfish and short-sighted

Education is key, but it can cause family rifts. #NTA

Empathetic commenter advises educating boyfriend to avoid future deception.

Encouraging comment suggests GED for boyfriend, empathizes with situation.

Encouraging advice to help boyfriend see beyond parental bubble

Expose the truth and stand your ground.
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Helpful advice for OP to rescue boyfriend from controlling ‘parents’

Supporting partner’s healing process after parental deception.

NTA exposes boyfriend’s parents’ deception, but relationship issues remain unresolved.

Supportive comment suggests legal action against deceptive parents, with humor.

Last Updated on February 17, 2024 by Diply Social Team