Imagine this: You’re out for dinner with your significant other, eagerly waiting for his parents to join you. Suddenly, he drops a bombshell – you’re expected to foot the bill for everyone’s meal. What would you do? One woman found herself in this exact predicament and her decision has sparked a fiery debate. Let’s delve into the story…
Meet ‘Ricky’ and His ‘Divorcee’ Dilemma

The Ex Factor and the Second Job

The ‘Rough Patch’ Excuse ️

The Dinner Bombshell

The ‘Coincidental’ Rough Patch

The ‘No Choice’ Ultimatum

The Shocked Boyfriend

The Money Argument

The ‘Ex’ Comparison and the Lie

The Aftermath ️

A Dinner Date Disaster or a Righteous Walkout?
In a whirlwind of drama, our heroine found herself caught between a rock and a hard place. Her boyfriend, Ricky, had invited her to dinner with his parents and then casually dropped the bombshell that she was expected to pay for everyone’s meals. Faced with this unexpected demand, she chose to walk out, leaving Ricky and his parents at the restaurant. Ricky was left fuming, accusing her of prioritizing money over relationships and leaving him in an awkward position. The question remains: was she right to walk out, or should she have stayed and paid? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA – Run, girl! This guy is financially abusive and manipulative

“Divorcee vs Divorced – Red Flag”
“MARINARA FLAGS EVERYWHERE! Run like your tampon is on fire.”

NTA, 5 months in and time to cut your losses!

Dating an a**hole? Ditch the dinner!

NTA. Girl, leave his a**. Financial issues aren’t your problem.

Heartfelt connection forged through shared grief strengthens their bond. ❤️

NTA. Red flags: dumped, ATM, gold digger, controlling ex. Break up.

NTA. Boyfriend’s a user. Ex got tired of being mom

A clever NTA comment that hits the iceberg of truth

Spaghetti sabotage? NTA ditches dinner, sparks marinara mystery.

Commenter advises leaving boyfriend due to his divorced past. NTA
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NTA: Dump him!

Break up with him and find someone who values you more.

“NTA: Dump him! His ex-wife probably did the same.”

NTA: Run from this relationship. There is nothing good here.

Commenter advises to run from volatile, financially dependent boyfriend.
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Dump the loser! Entitled much? Run or brisk walk away!

Dump him! You deserve better.

NTA: Time to go! Don’t waste your time on him

NTA: Time to cut ties and move on.

Trash took itself out. Good riddance!

Escaping an abusive relationship: Stay strong and keep moving forward!

NTA, but beware of manipulative ex-boyfriends. Stay strong!

Break up? NTA! Why tolerate this crap?

Dump the a**hole and find someone who appreciates you!

Bold move: Leaving the restaurant was just the beginning. #NTA

RUN. “you’re making money a priority just like my ex did” is code for “I’m a mooch and this will be your future.” NTA and please keep walking ♂️ until he’s out of your life. Edit: ♀️RUNNING

Why are you still with this guy?

Dump him! Run like the wind! ️

Dump his user a**. NTA.

Silent treatment saves the day! Problem solved on its own.

NTA: A satisfying solution to a toxic relationship.

NTA. Dump him and run like a marathon!

Gaslighting boyfriend doesn’t deserve you. NTA, you deserve better.

Dump him! ♀️ You deserve better.
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NTA – Red flags everywhere! Immature SO playing stupid games.

Run as fast as you can. Not the a**hole.

Marinara flags and a bold move? Definitely not the a**hole! ️

NTA for ditching dinner date. Reconsider the entitled boyfriend

YTA for entertaining this relationship. How desperate are you?

INFO: Did typing that make you question your relationship?

Questioning the motive behind dating this guy?

Breakup or Bold Move? NTA’s advice: Block, delete, move on!

YTA. Be his most recent ex.

Break free! NTA comment encourages self-love and leaving toxic relationships.

NTA. The truth behind his failed marriage finally revealed!

NTA, but run! He dropped these

When the red flags start waving, it’s time to bolt!

“NTA. Leave him! His ex is a red flag. RUN!”

Terrible partners exist, but you see the red flags. NTA.

9 red flags in this relationship. Run! ♀️

Dump the loser! Leave him and find someone better!

Is there any reason to stay with this guy?

Protect your and leave him before it’s too late!

Dump him and join the exes club.

Red flags galore! Consider this your sign to leave.

Dumping a partner who constantly compares you to their exes?

Divorce-worthy dinner ditch?

Red flags ignored: OP not the a**hole for ditching dinner

Divorcee’s perspective sparks curiosity and supports NTA judgement.

Red flags! You deserve better. Don’t ignore them!

NTA: Ex’s absence reveals truth. Boyfriend needs a reality check.

Dumping the moocher family? NTA! Money matters, not exes.

Dump him! He’s a user who will never change.

NTA. Run! Don’t waste time with an irresponsible, disrespectful AH.

“NTA. Putting money before relationships? That’s a red flag. “

Break free! ♀️ Don’t be his ATM, be independent

NTA: Red flag alert! Get out of that toxic relationship!

Dump him! You’re not the a**hole.

NTA. Red flags in relationship, time to run away!

MARINARA MARINARA MARINARA! NTA, financial abuse is a deal-breaker!

Commenter questions need for verbal abuse, sparking confusion.
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