Imagine finally moving in with your significant other, only to find yourselves at odds over the use of a spare room. This 24-year-old woman and her 25-year-old fiancé are in the midst of a heated debate as they prepare to move into their new 3-bedroom house. She’s never had her own room and desperately craves a space to call her own. He, on the other hand, believes they should share everything and not just coexist in the same space. Let’s dive into their story and see if we can help them settle this dispute.
The Great Room Debate Begins
Craving a Space of Her Own
A Room to Call Her Own? ️
Fiancé’s Gym Dreams
The Battle for the Spare Room
Sharing vs. Coexisting
Still Sharing?
Splitting Expenses 50/50
Fiancée vs Fiancé: Whose Room Will It Be?
This couple is in a heated debate over the use of a spare room in their new home. She’s never had her own room and yearns for a space of her own, while he believes they should share everything and not just coexist. He’s willing to compromise by turning the second room into a guest bedroom that both can use when they need space, but she still feels like she’d be sharing. With expenses split 50/50, is she being unreasonable for wanting her own room? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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“NTA. Women deserve their own space too! “
NTA. Couples deserve personal space. Don’t let him shame you
Woman demands her own room in new house, fiancé disagrees
NTA. OP deserves her own space in the new house
NTA, but consider living alone first to discover yourself
Misunderstanding about wanting a separate bedroom, not just personal space
NTA. OP deserves her own space, just like her fiancé.
Commenter wants space, but is it too soon?
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ESH. Commenter suggests sharing space vs. claiming it as personal.
Commenter argues for compromise in dividing office and personal space
NTA. Fiancé hogs bedrooms, you deserve your own space too!
NTA: Demanding equal space in a shared house. Fair compromise.
Having separate spaces in a marriage is healthy and important!
Wanting a spare room is reasonable, but banning access isn’t.
“YTA. Demanding a separate room? That’s a bit childish “
Fair division of space in a new house, NTA!
Is the office space meant to be shared or not?
NTA demands own room in new house, baffled by compromise.
Maybe living alone first is a good idea…
