Picture this: You’re in a loving relationship, and your partner’s three teenage daughters suddenly move in with you. You’re already the primary breadwinner, and now your expenses skyrocket. What would you do? One woman found herself in this exact situation and decided it was time to demand her significant other pay his fair share. But when she brought up the issue, things took a dramatic turn.
The Happy Couple

Financial Differences

The Teen Daughters Move In

The Financial Strain Begins

Crunching the Numbers

The Confrontation

Angry Accusations

Standing Her Ground

“For Our Family”

Feeling Taken Advantage Of

Love and Responsibility

The Resolution ️

Working It Out

Love, Money, and Family Drama
Our heroine found herself in a financial bind after her boyfriend’s three teenage daughters moved in. Despite being the primary breadwinner, she continued to cover most of the expenses, but soon realized she was falling behind. When she asked her boyfriend to contribute more, he accused her of being money hungry. But after some tough conversations, they reached an agreement, and he agreed to pay the $1200 she requested. It’s a story full of love, money, and family drama that leaves us wondering: What would you do in her shoes?
Demanding a fair share from a freeloading boyfriend

Stand your ground! Don’t let him take advantage of you. NTA

Partner refusing to support his own children? NTA, demand fairness.

Don’t be a doormat. Get out while you can! NTA

NTA stands up for herself, leaving toxic boyfriend.

NTA: Commenter advises OP to kick out mooching boyfriend and family

Disabled vet shares success story, supports NTA’s financial demands

Woman demands fair share from boyfriend after his teen daughters move in

Demanding fair share – NTA comment stands alone

Protect yourself and your kids. Don’t be used.

Commenter supports woman’s decision to not support boyfriend’s daughters.

NTA commenter calls out user for being used

Commenter warns of failing relationship due to unfair financial expectations

Woman demands fair share for stepdaughters’ expenses, NTA for asking.

Curious comment questions boyfriend’s expenses, no replies yet

Demanding a fair share: NTA comment sparks agreement.

Commenter questions disability and ability to work, sparking debate.
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User advises to end the relationship and demand fair share

Keeping score in relationships never ends well ♀️

Maximize benefits for fair share. Check custody updates and eligibility.

Questioning the relationship

Protect yourself and your kids from exploitative partner. NTA.

Demanding fair share from boyfriend’s ex-wife, NTA wins!

Don’t be a doormat! Stand up for yourself!

Commenter calls out boyfriend for being a leech

Confused commenter questions the math behind girlfriend’s expenses

Commenter calls out boyfriend for taking advantage of girlfriend. #NTA

NTA commenter advises woman to evict and report boyfriend

Woman demands fair share from boyfriend after his teen daughters move in. NTA.

NTA. Boyfriend mooching off you, detrimental to your children

Woman demands fair share from boyfriend after his daughters move in

Putting your kids first is never being the a**hole. NTA

Boyfriend accused of mooching off girlfriend for years. NTA.

Woman demands fair share from boyfriend, asks for prenup advice

Boyfriend using her for free childcare, NTA for demanding fairness
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NTA, prioritize your kids and get out before sinking more money.

Commenter advises to evict boyfriend’s family, calls out unfair situation

Setting boundaries with baggage-laden partner: NTA demands independence

Woman demands fair share from boyfriend after his daughters move in
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Commenter advises to run away, declares not the a**hole.

Retired veteran supports OP and calls out boyfriend’s behavior

NTA suggests rethinking relationship due to being taken advantage of

Commenter predicts trouble despite NTA judgement

NTA demands boyfriend pay fair share for his daughters’ expenses

Demanding a fair share for new expenses #NTA

Protect your own kids before becoming a cash cow

Financial strain due to bf’s daughters. NTA.

Boyfriend’s daughters move in, woman demands fair share. NTA agrees.

Commenter suggests kicking out boyfriend’s daughters, sparks debate

Commenter suspects girlfriend’s scam, sparks heated debate.

NTA. Supportive partner realizes she’s being used.

Boyfriend takes advantage of woman who supports him and his kids

Supportive comment encourages ending unfair living arrangement with boyfriend.

Demanding a fair share, NTA needs support from boyfriend

Commenter advises OP to leave and calls out boyfriend’s behavior

NTA commenter advises woman to kick out boyfriend’s daughters

Dump him The nerve of calling you money hungry

Boyfriend should pay all expenses for his family of four

Boyfriend accused of taking advantage of girlfriend’s finances. NTA

NTA comment asserts fairness in demanding a fair share

NTA demands fair share from boyfriend for household bills.

Unemployed boyfriend gaslights girlfriend who supports him and his kids

NTA commenter questions the situation and calls out boyfriend’s behavior
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Partner’s daughters move in, woman demands fair share. NTA.

Commenter advises woman to put her foot down or leave

Dump him and his daughters! NTA, you’re being taken advantage of

NTA comment calls out boyfriend’s behavior with humor

Demanding fair share of expenses for stepchildren. NTA.

Unequal partnership in relationship sparks concern among commenters.

Demanding fair share from boyfriend with ultimatum and eviction threat

Don’t sacrifice your financial future for your boyfriend’s daughters.

Protect your kids. NTA if you stand up for them.

Find someone who appreciates you and is a real partner

Stand your ground and demand fairness, you’re not their ATM

NTA. Tough love advice for a doormat.
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Commenter thinks the woman is not the a**hole.

Stand your ground and remain firm. You don’t owe him anything

Put the responsibility on him to do the right thing

Woman demands fair share for stepdaughters’ expenses. Is she right?

Commenter calls out boyfriend for being a leech.

Demanding child support for his kids is reasonable. NTA.

NTA questions boyfriend’s child support payment allocation.

Commenter questions why person stays in unhappy relationship. NTA.

Money issues and blended families can strain relationships. Communication is key.

Woman demands fair share from boyfriend for his daughters’ expenses

Take charge! You’re NTA, don’t let them take advantage

Partner’s mooching exposed, commenter advises eviction. NTA.

Financial caution advised in blended family situations.

Savage response to boyfriend not paying fair share

Commenter advises breakup due to unsustainable financial situation.
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NTA. Boyfriend is taking advantage of you. Prioritize your own kids.

Take control of your finances, set a fair amount

NTA suggests giving boyfriend and his kids a timeline to move out
