Imagine spending years planning vacations for your husband and his twin, only to be met with constant complaints and a lack of appreciation. That’s the reality for one woman who’s fed up with her ungrateful spouse and his sibling. After years of organizing trips and handling all the details, she’s considering canceling an upcoming Christmas trip to Italy. But would that make her the bad guy? Let’s dive into her story and find out.
The Overworked Wife
Division of Labor
Honeymoon Disappointment
Unhelpful Husband
Blame Game
The Ungrateful Twin
One-Sided Friendship
Hawaii Trip Drama
Sunset ≠ Thank You
Husband’s Harsh Response
Thanksgiving Ultimatum
Christmas Trip Dilemma
Considering Her Options
The Big Question ❓
To Cancel or Not to Cancel: A Wife’s Dilemma ♀️
After years of planning vacations for her ungrateful husband and his twin, this wife is at her wit’s end. Despite her best efforts to include her brother-in-law, she’s met with complaints and a lack of appreciation. Now, with a three-week Christmas trip to Italy on the horizon, she’s considering canceling it entirely, or just their portions and going solo. But would that make her the bad guy? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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Op seeks advice on dealing with ungrateful husband and future parenting
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NTA. Leave him! You deserve better.
Valid frustration leads to appalling disrespect. Time to get out!
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NTA suggests taking a random Reddit person on the Christmas trip
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OP feels like a mom to her husband. ♀️
NTA: Ungrateful husband holds holidays hostage, *exhausting* to be married to him
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Escape the toxic family dynamic and reclaim your independence!
Unhappy wife considers divorce and an Italian affair this Christmas!
Two husbands, one draining. What does husband number 2 contribute?
NTA. Husband told OP to go f**k herself on vacation beach. ️
Consider a Christmas present to yourself: spa day and divorce
“INFO: What *DOES* he do?” – Ungrateful husband and twin
“NTA. Frustrated with ungrateful husband. Need a compromise for Christmas.”
NTA, but don’t let them treat you like an employee
“Is BIL 13 or suffered multiple blows to the head?”
