Picture this: you’re at a party, and someone starts talking about their ‘gay best friend’. But there’s a twist – that ‘gay best friend’ is actually your husband! That’s exactly what happened to one woman, who found herself in a bizarre and awkward situation. As she listened to the woman – let’s call her Sarah – gushing about her supposed ‘gay bff’, she couldn’t help but feel the need to set the record straight. And boy, did she ever!
The Bisexual Couple ️

The ‘Gay Voice’ ️

Meet Sarah, the Clingy Coworker

The Party Drama Begins

Sarah’s ‘Gay BFF’ Claim

Setting the Record Straight

Sarah’s Shock and Awe

The Aftermath: Laughter and Humiliation

A Positive Outcome?

The Guilt Creeps In

Why Didn’t He Tell Her?

No Meaningful Conversations

No Rings Allowed

The Verdict: Was She in the Wrong?
So, there you have it – a woman who snapped at someone for calling her husband her ‘gay bff’, only to reveal that he’s actually her bisexual spouse. While she admits that her intention wasn’t to humiliate Sarah, she can’t help but feel guilty about the situation. Was she in the wrong, or was it just a matter of setting the record straight? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this juicy drama…
Woman falsely claims man as her ‘gay BFF’, gets shut down. NTA.

NTA stands up to friend’s misguided attempt at ‘splainin’ sexuality

NTA for calling out fetishization of gay men as ‘GBF’

NTA snaps back at coworker’s false ‘gay BFF’ claim

YTA for humiliating Sarah in front of witnesses. Punching down

Woman defends her husband’s sexuality against coworker’s skepticism. NTA

OP is called out for being unnecessarily harsh. YTA.

ESH for being presumptuous and clingy, husband for not communicating

Commenter defends woman and criticizes OP’s behavior.

Commenter calls out original poster for humiliating coworker.

Commenter defends woman accused of having a crush on husband ❤️
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Woman claims man as ‘gay BFF’ but he’s married to a woman

Winning the game of entitlement, but losing the friendship

Commenter defends woman accused of claiming man as gay BFF.

Bisexual commenter calls out fetishization of gay best friends.

Straight women fetishizing ‘gay best friend’ and invading personal life. NTA.
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Commenter questions woman’s announcement of sexuality at husband’s work party.

NTA but husband’s lack of disclosure raises questions

Commenter calls out YTA for humiliating woman at party

Commenter calls out both parties for bad behavior ♂️

Misleading title? Let’s hope the article is more accurate.

Calling out fetishization is important, but public shaming is ESH.

Commenter calls out OP’s behavior as unnecessary and disproportionate.

Commenter admits ESH, but suggests better handling of situation.

Spilling negative comments about spouse to coworkers? ESH ♀️

Comment section off to a rocky start ♂️

Revealing someone’s sexuality in a rude way is never okay

Commenter called out for mean girl behavior towards coworker. ♀️

Assuming someone’s sexuality can be misleading, but harmless

Did this commenter really deserve the NTA judgment?

Accusation of jealousy leads to YTA judgement

Bi woman confronts friend for fetishizing her husband as gay BFF

NTA comment calls out ‘gay best friend’ stereotype ️

Commenter defends OP’s reaction to clueless friend

Curious about the husband’s opinion

NTA. Your actions were reasonable and legendary
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Wife defends husband against friend’s inappropriate advances
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Commenter accused of lacking class and kindness ♀️

Calling out the problematic concept of a ‘Gay Best Friend’

Bisexual woman defends calling out misuse of ‘gay best friend’ label

Commenter accused of insecurity for overreacting

Commenter thinks OP was wrong to publicly disclose friend’s orientation.

Calling someone an accessory is disgusting. NTA for correcting her.

Married man’s ‘gay BFF’ lie exposed. Commenter calls out idiocy. NTA.
