Picture this: you’re a 28-year-old woman who’s organized a group holiday for your closest friends and their partners, generously covering all travel and accommodation costs. But then, one of your friend’s boyfriends makes a creepy comment about your body that leaves you feeling uncomfortable and violated. What do you do? For one woman, the answer was clear: uninvite the creep and deal with the fallout. But now her friend group is divided, and she’s left wondering if she made the right call. ♀️
Meet Lucy and Harvey: A Complicated Couple
Harvey’s Bad Vibes
Tolerating Harvey for Lucy’s Sake
The Group Holiday Plan ️
Drinks, Exercise, and an Unwanted ‘Compliment’
Harvey’s Crude Comment
Everyone’s Shocked, Except Lucy
The Aftermath: Uncomfortable and Upset
Boyfriend’s Support
The Tough Call: Uninviting Harvey
Lucy’s Accusations and Ultimatum
The Group Split: Fair or Heavy-Handed? ♂️
The Boyfriend’s Take ♂️
Creepy Comment Causes Chaos: Whose Side Are You On?
After Harvey’s crude comment about our protagonist’s body, she decides to uninvite him from the group holiday she’s generously funding. But this decision doesn’t come without consequences. Lucy, Harvey’s girlfriend, accuses her of overreacting and says she won’t go on the trip if Harvey can’t. The friend group is now divided, with some supporting the decision and others calling it heavy-handed. Even her boyfriend, who isn’t a fan of Harvey, suggests giving in for Lucy’s sake. So, is our protagonist justified in her decision, or should she let it slide for the sake of her friend? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
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