We’ve all heard of the thrill and excitement of riding a motorcycle, but what happens when the risks outweigh the rewards? One wife is at her wit’s end after her husband’s multiple motorcycle accidents have left her emotionally drained and fearful for their future. With a newborn baby in the mix, she’s now faced with the difficult decision of whether to stand by her man or protect herself and her child from further heartache. Let’s dive into her story…
The Motorcycle Purchase ️

A Life-Changing Accident

Newborn Baby and Bike Repairs

Back to Riding ️

Another Accident Strikes ⚠️

A Weekend Away with the Boys

The Motorcycle Club ️

Emotional Pain and Tough Decisions

A Heartbreaking Ultimatum

Vows and Family Responsibilities

The Argument and Ultimatum ️

Long-Term Consequences ️

A Possible Separation

Unhappy and Relieved

A Family Torn by a Dangerous Hobby ️
This wife has been through the wringer with her husband’s motorcycle accidents, and now she’s faced with a tough decision. As he plans a weekend away with the boys, she’s forced to confront her fears and lay down an ultimatum: if he gets on a bike again and crashes, she won’t be by his side. With a young daughter to think about, she’s struggling between her vows and her emotional well-being. As the couple faces a possible separation, let’s see what the internet has to say about this heart-wrenching situation…
Motorcycles or marriage? It’s time to choose.

Concerned commenter suggests life insurance policy for reckless husband.

Experienced rider advises husband to quit high-risk motorcycle riding

Husband’s addiction to thrill puts family second. NTA for leaving.

Spouse threatens ultimatum after repeated reckless motorcycle accidents

NTA expresses concern for husband’s risky behavior and advises precautions.

Responsible bikers don’t ride after even one drink

Dark humor in response to insensitive comment about motorcycle accident.

Wife expresses fear and trauma over husband’s motorcycle accidents, NTA.

User advises OP to leave husband after reckless behavior. NTA.

Former motorcycle enthusiast reflects on giving up the thrill for family ❤️

Husband’s motorcycle accident and risk assessment makes him TA ️

Cycle of love and danger: when do you say enough?

Biker dad and son call out husband’s irresponsible behavior

Prioritizing safety and family in a motorcycle marriage

Motorcycle accidents and a husband who needs to grow up. NTA.

Spouse prioritizes bike over family, wife deserves better

Motorcycles: a dangerous hobby or a death wish? ️

Neighbour’s husband’s bike obsession causes family trauma

Rider’s risky behavior and lack of fear concerns commenter

Husband’s motorcycle accidents: 3 strikes and he’s out

A marriage on the rocks due to reckless motorcycle behavior

Spending on motorcycles while money is tight? NTA for warning.

ER nurse suggests divorce over husband’s motorcycle obsession

A cautionary tale about the dangers of motorcycle accidents

Experienced biker warns wife to put her foot down. NTA.

Biking may not be for everyone, even if it’s a hobby.

Concerned commenter questions why someone would loan him a ride.
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User advises leaving husband who prioritizes fun over family

Motorcycle club and sketchy behavior? NTA’s warning is justified

Spouse’s dangerous behavior on the road: divorce or insure?

User doubts husband’s motorcycle skills, sparks debate.

Spouse warns reckless husband, commenter suggests life insurance or organ donation.

User thinks bike clubs are for losers, warns husband of consequences.

A horse accident left me bedridden for 6 months, husband asked me to never ride again. Your husband exceeded his limit 10 accidents ago.

The harsh reality of a life in a motorcycle club

Motorcycle rider’s wife warns him after multiple accidents. NTA commenter agrees.

Redditor advises life insurance policy for reckless husband. Sympathy offered.

Motorcycle-obsessed husband prioritizes friends over wife. NTA.

Former biker shares how he prioritized family over motorcycle.
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Harsh comment about husband’s motorcycle skills. No replies.

Wife threatens to leave husband after multiple motorcycle accidents

Spouse suggests life insurance and split if motorcycle recklessness continues

Husband’s love for bikes jeopardizes family’s well-being. NTA.

User suggests finding a new hobby after multiple accidents

Dad and rider warns wife to give ultimatum to selfish husband

Husband joined a club without asking wife. Is she controlling?

Former biker agrees: husband prioritizing bike over family is unacceptable

Motorcycle obsession jeopardizes marriage and mental health

User warns about dangers of motorcycle club and infidelity suspicions.

Riding is risky, but having multiple accidents is a red flag. NTA

Plan for the future, buy life insurance for your husband

Experienced rider advises wife to set reasonable limitations for husband.

Uncle’s accident made him sell his bike, husband needs wake-up call

Experienced rider warns wife of husband’s dangerous behavior

Prioritizing family over hobbies is important

Bro needs to prioritize family over risky hobbies. NTA

Suggests getting life insurance due to husband’s recklessness

Partner prioritizes hobby over finances and relationship. NTA verdict.

ER doctor sister-in-law advises against motorcycles, shares transplant story.

Sharing the road can be scary. One driver’s experience.

Hold him accountable and prioritize your needs. Leave now. NTA ✌

Husband’s immaturity puts family at risk, NTA.

Comparing motorcycle addiction to substance addiction. NTA’s ultimatum.

Spouse threatens divorce after husband’s reckless motorcycle accident.

Practical advice for dealing with a reckless spouse’s hobbies

User suggests leaving reckless husband to avoid danger
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Choosing family over hobby – a tough but necessary decision

Harsh advice for wife’s safety and financial security

User criticizes husband’s motorcycle club involvement and suggests divorce.

Experienced rider agrees, husband needs to improve or quit

Choose responsibility over recklessness for the sake of your child

User questions husband’s driving skills after multiple accidents. NTA supported.

Wife warns husband about motorcycle, commenter shares similar experience. NTA.

A wife’s warning to prioritize safety over love. NTA.

Dark humor at its finest.

Motorcycle obsession causing strain on family, NTA for wife’s ultimatum.

Concerned commenter questions why no one talks sense to husband

Wife expresses concerns over husband prioritizing his desires over family.

Financial concerns raised about motorcycle insurance after accident.

Motorcycling obsession puts family at risk, husband needs to change.

NTA’s friend died in a bike accident, vows hold you hostage
