Imagine having a beautiful daughter and planning for a second child, only for your spouse to drop a bombshell: they’re not happy with how your daughter turned out and want a ‘better’ egg donor for the next baby! That’s the situation one husband found himself in, and he’s now questioning his wife’s love for their daughter. As the drama unfolds, he’s left wondering if he’s in the wrong for threatening to reveal the truth about the egg donor if his wife treats their children differently.
The Fertility Struggle

The Egg Donor Solution

Wife’s Quest for Perfection

A Beautiful Daughter is Born

Keeping the Secret

Time for Baby #2?

Wife’s Shocking Revelation

The ‘Better’ Donor Debate

Husband’s Ultimatum

Wife’s Hysterics

A Fragile Truce? ️

Can’t Forget the Past ♂️

The Unspoken Truth

A Family Torn Apart by a ‘Better’ Donor?
In a whirlwind of emotions, a husband is left questioning his wife’s love for their daughter after she demands a ‘better’ egg donor for their next child. Despite her insistence that she doesn’t think their daughter is ‘good enough’, she refuses therapy and wants to use the same donor again. Now, the husband is left wondering if he should reveal the truth about the egg donor to their daughter. Will this family be able to heal, or will the quest for a ‘better’ donor tear them apart? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA- Wife wants to design child’s personality, needs therapy

“NTA for being concerned about your wife treating your daughter differently if you have another child by a different donor, but what on earth made you think it was ok to lie to your child?”

NTA. Therapy needed before considering another child.

Wife’s warped idea of children sparks concern, therapy needed

ESH – Daughter deserves to know her genetic history, lies will be exposed

Insightful comment on insecurities and unresolved feelings with egg donors.

ESH. Daughter deserves truth about medical history.

Should they tell their daughter about the egg donor?

NTA, avoiding favoritism and considering therapy before having another child

NTA: Wife’s cruel attitude towards daughter’s appearance, husband threatens egg donation
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Therapy first! YWBTA if you’d get another child
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NTA: Wife needs therapy, not another kid. She’s treating children like toys

Supportive comment urges therapy for wife struggling with fertility.

Wife wants ‘better’ egg donor, husband threatens to spill beans

ESH. Expecting kids to fit a pre-made role is unrealistic

NTA… Wife’s unrealistic expectations, husband needs to disclose medical info.

Curious commenter questions husband’s motive for revealing egg donor secret

NTA. Wife wants a ‘better’ egg donor for next child

NTA. Wife needs therapy before considering another child

NTA. It’s tough, but therapy might help. Kids deserve honesty.

ESH. Breach of trust + dysfunctional parenting = major concerns

ESH: Hiding truth, unrealistic expectations, and favoritism. Recipe for disaster

Wrong sub, but they need relationship advice!

ESH. Wife wants a ‘better’ egg donor, husband threatens to spill the beans
