Imagine being ‘voluntold’ by your spouse to do something you’re uncomfortable with, without even being asked first! That’s exactly what happened to one man, who has schizophrenia, when his wife agreed to have him meet her coworker’s daughter – who was recently diagnosed with the same condition. The wife thought her husband could serve as a beacon of hope for the teen, but he had other ideas. Let’s dive into this dramatic tale of miscommunication and boundaries.
Schizophrenia Diagnosis: A Common Bond?
Wife Spills the Beans
Unexpected Meeting Request
Surprise! You’re a Mentor Now
Wife’s Desperate Plea
Reasons for Refusal
Schizophrenia: A Unique Experience
Other Resources Available
Wife’s Misjudgment
No Consent, No Dice
Social Awkwardness Alert
Husband’s Candid Response
Coworker’s Disappointment
Husband Stands His Ground, Wife Left Frustrated
Despite his wife’s pleas, the husband refuses to be a ‘circus animal’ and mentor the coworker’s daughter. He explains his reasons, including the uniqueness of schizophrenia, the availability of other resources, and his wife’s lack of consent. As the coworker remains disappointed, the wife is left angry and frustrated with her husband’s decision. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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