Birthdays are a time for celebration and surprises, but sometimes, even the best-laid plans can go awry. A wife (30F) thought she had found the perfect gift for her husband (32M) after he had been dropping hints about desperately needing a massage. She booked him a 1-hour deep tissue massage with a reputed therapist, excited about her thoughtful gift. But when she revealed the surprise, her husband’s reaction left her absolutely fuming and questioning whether she was in the wrong.
The Gift Conundrum
The Massage Hint ♂️
The Booking
The Surprise Dilemma
The Big Reveal
The Shocking Reaction
The Confusion
The Aftermath
The Confrontation ️
The Explanation
The Massage Gun Alternative ♀️
The Apology Gifts
The Unforgiving Husband
The Massage Gift Debacle: Who’s in the Wrong? ♀️
After her husband dropped hints about wanting a massage, a wife booked him a deep tissue massage for his birthday. But when she revealed the surprise, he got angry and accused her of ruining his day. She confronted him, and he admitted he didn’t like that she had already booked the appointment, as he needed to be in control of his social interactions. He also said a massage wasn’t a big enough gift and wanted something material like a massage gun. She tried to make amends with apology gifts, but he remained upset. Was she in the wrong, or is her husband being ungrateful? Let’s see what the internet has to say…
NTA. Commenters suggest getting a cheap pack of gum for AH husband.
Commenter defends the wife while proposing to her jokingly
Commenter sympathizes but wonders if there’s more to the story
Partner throws tantrum over thoughtful massage gift, proves unappreciative.
Husband calls wife’s birthday surprise a ruin, but who’s wrong?
Commenter suggests control issues, replies agree.
Commenter suggests husband’s behavior is childish and offers cautionary advice.
Surprise massage for husband’s birthday backfires due to lack of communication
NTA- Husband forgets birthday gift, wife suggests list, still forgets.
Encouraging support for OP to enjoy her birthday massage despite husband’s behavior
Commenter sympathizes with wife and suggests marriage counseling
Understanding the context behind his reaction is important
Wife gives hubby a massage for his birthday, but his reaction leaves her fuming
Commenter sympathizes with wife’s frustration over husband’s behavior.
Commenter calls out ungrateful husband, sparks hilarious reply thread
Surprise gifts cause him stress, it’s a control issue. Take note.
Pro Tip: Give gift certificates for massages, don’t schedule them. ESH.
Is he pushing your limits on purpose?
Husband’s ungrateful reaction to wife’s birthday gift
Miscommunication leads to disappointing birthday gift, but hope for resolution
Red flags in response to birthday surprise. NTA.
Dealing with a narcissist partner: NTA comment suggests therapy ♀️
Man complains about birthday gift of massage, gets called out.
OP’s partner sets impossible standards, causing sadness and anxiety
A misunderstanding blown out of proportion. NAH/ESH.
Speculation arises on husband’s motive for rejecting wife’s massage gift
Wife’s birthday surprise backfires with husband’s r**e reaction
When the comment burns more than the article
When a surprise gift becomes a burden, ESH.
Commenter and reply suggest alternatives to surprise gift for husband.
Disappointed husband complains about birthday gift, even after getting more. ♀️
Spouse wants a massage, but throws a fit when gifted. NTA suggests a reminder and some tough love. ♂️
Surprise massages aren’t for everyone ESH, but he overreacted.
Birthday gift gone wrong? Commenter defends wife’s actions.
Dealing with a spoiled husband with social anxiety
Communication is key! ESH for not listening and poor reaction
Giving a gift that requires an appointment can be tricky
Hubby’s unexpected reaction to birthday massage leaves wife fuming
Dump him! NTA deserves better treatment and appreciation.
When a massage isn’t enough… ♂️
Commenter sympathizes with wife, calls husband a spoiled baby
Suggesting a massage to calm frustration
Wife surprises husband with massage, but his reaction disappoints her
Wife’s surprise massage gift for husband with social anxiety backfires. YTA.
Don’t let him manipulate you, dump the a**hole
Gift-giving turns into belittlement, is hubby on ‘roids?
Insensitive and controlling husband ruins birthday surprise, both at fault.
Understanding anxiety and expectations can prevent birthday surprises gone wrong
Respect your partner’s wishes. ESH for not listening.
Savage NTA comment suggests getting a new husband
Insensitive husband rejects thoughtful gift, NTA takes a stand
Commenter calls out ungrateful husband, NTA verdict supported.
Hubby hints at birthday massage, gets mad when wife gets pro.
Relieved commenter supports receiver of birthday massage gift
Commenter suggests husband wanted a happy ending, advises wife to use massage.
Commenter defends wife’s actions and calls out husband’s behavior.
Last Updated on May 20, 2023 by Diply Social Team