Imagine being in a loving marriage and trying to have a baby, only for your husband’s past to come back and complicate things. That’s exactly what happened to this 32-year-old woman, who found herself in a moral dilemma when her husband’s friend asked him to be a sperm donor again. The couple’s story has sparked a heated debate on the internet, with people taking sides and questioning who’s in the right. Let’s dive into the drama and see if we can figure out who’s the real victim here.
The Sperm Donor Hubby

Accepting the Unusual Family

Trying for a Baby

The Request for Another Donation

Wife’s Discomfort

The Emotional Struggle

Husband’s Support

Miranda and Vivian’s Refusal

The Blame Game

Explaining the Reasons

Restricted Access

Selfish or Justified?

Clarifying the Situation

Legal Rights

The Uncle/Nephew Relationship

Wife’s Dilemma: To Donate or Not to Donate? ♀️
Caught in a whirlwind of emotions and moral dilemmas, this wife is struggling to accept her husband’s past sperm donation and the possibility of him fathering another child with his friend. As they try to have a baby of their own, she can’t shake the feeling that it would be too painful to see another woman carry her husband’s child. With friends accusing her of being unreasonable and selfish, she’s left questioning her own motives and wondering if she’s in the wrong. As the drama unfolds, let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
NTA. Husband’s friends demand approval for child, using son as bargaining chip. Disgusting

“NTA. Vivian and Miranda are being incredibly unreasonable “
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NTA. They’re using their son as a pawn to get another child

Using children as weapons? That’s a whole new low.

NTA for not wanting husband to father another woman’s child

NTA for setting boundaries, but consider their perspective and communicate

NTA: Stand your ground and protect your own happiness

NTA for not wanting husband to father another woman’s child

NTA. Husband’s involvement with donor child causes family complications

Boundaries and access to child cause complications in non-traditional family.

“NTA, their entitlement and mean-spirited actions are red flags “
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NTA. Miranda and Vivian are AHs for pressuring your husband.

ESH. Commenters debate the ethics of husband’s involvement with another woman’s child.

Using a sperm donor and Vivian as a surrogate is an option

NTA! They refused to accept his answer? Unbelievable

NTA OP. Red flag behavior. Using child as bargaining tool.

Would you consider letting James be their donor again?

NTA. Valid feelings. Husband committed to one child, not multiple.

NTA. Nontraditional family, grow up and accept James’ answer

NAH but Yea you kind of are being selfish. The idea of the other woman being able to have a baby and their kids be biologically related is a really nice idea. It’s not your sperm. There is plenty of sperm to go around for your own baby. It’s not like this whole thing hasn’t been done already and worked out really well for most people involved so it’s just you feeling uncomfortable with it that is stopping it happening again. Sure you have every right not to want it to happen but only you and your husband truly know if you are the only reason he isn’t doing it again. The two mums are also being selfish in reducing visitation and whatever too though.

NTA for wanting to protect your family’s emotional well-being
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