We all have our quirks, but sometimes they can go too far and cause conflict in our relationships. This wife (23F) and her husband (23M) have been together for four years and married for six months. They love each other, but there’s one thing that’s causing a rift between them – his strange obsession with a conservative ‘influencer’ who shames men for ‘simping’ in photos. The wife just wants a normal photo, but her husband’s fixation on this bizarre trend is causing tension. Let’s dive into their story and see what’s going on.
The Influencer’s Odd Claim to Fame

The Strange ‘Green Lines’ Theory

The ‘Ideal’ Photo According to the Influencer

Husband’s Assurance: It’s Just a Joke

Wife Notices Husband’s Odd Photo Behavior

The Unwanted Side Profile ♀️

Confrontation and Denial ️

The Christmas Photo Incident

The Same Old Problem Resurfaces

Husband’s Shocking Reason

The Green Lines Excuse

Wife’s Frustration Boils Over

The Incel Accusation

Husband’s Angry Reaction

The Wife’s Dilemma: Who’s in the Wrong? ♀️

A Bizarre Obsession and a Strained Relationship
This wife’s story is a rollercoaster of emotions, as she discovers her husband’s strange obsession with a conservative influencer’s ‘green lines’ theory. Despite his assurances that it’s all a joke, his actions tell a different story. She just wants a normal photo, but he’s unwilling to let her face the camera head-on, fearing it’ll make him look like a ‘simp.’ Frustrated, she calls him an incel, sparking even more tension. Now, their relationship is strained, and she’s left wondering who’s really in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this peculiar situation…
Confusing comment leaves readers cringing in 2nd-hand embarrassment

Former radicalized person advises tough love for husband’s obsession

Wife calls out husband’s incel behavior over photo obsession

Conservative husband values internet misogynist’s opinion over his wife’s appearance

Married to an Andrew Tate fan? That takes guts

Husband’s photo obsession reveals alt-right political views

Opinionated comment on political differences in relationships.

Empowering response to demeaning behavior in relationships

Savage comment shuts down husband’s bizarre photo obsession ♀️

Red flags were there, time to reconsider this misogynist marriage.

Spouse prioritizes online buddies over wife’s concerns

Online radicalization can ruin relationships and lead to toxic beliefs.

User warns of potential red flags in husband’s ideology

Questioning the husband’s true character and beliefs

Marriage advice and NTA support amidst political differences

Toxicity of conservative men discussed in comments

Husband’s red pilled obsession with photos turns off wife

Supportive comment encourages leaving toxic partner.

A scathing critique of millennial/Gen Z conservatives and manosphere culture.

Husband’s obsession could lead to dangerous ideologies. NTA.

Young marriage and bizarre obsession, commenter calls NTA.

Debating the definition of ‘incel’ in influencer drama

Influencer obsession or self-worth issues? Pathetic behavior or not?

Defending husband’s photo obsession and calling out ‘simp’ culture.

NTA. Husband’s obsession with alpha male influencer culture is immature

Husband’s incel obsession is a red flag for abusive behavior

User suggests divorce to break husband from incel mindset

Married commenter gives advice on compromise and communication in relationships ❤️

Wife is NTA for calling out husband’s gaslighting and lying.

Red flags in marriage, plan an exit strategy.

Savage comment shuts down husband’s Instagram obsession

NTA comment: Husband’s misogyny causing incompatibility. ♂️

NTA for being upset, but ‘incel’ seems like an odd insult

Warning of the dangers of incel culture obsession. Stay firm.

Divorcee shuts down husband’s ‘green line’ obsession with sass

Red flag alert! Leave him as soon as possible

Man’s toxic behavior leads to loss of wife, seeks validation online

Supportive comment calls out toxic influencer obsession and husband’s behavior.

Marriage based on lies, NTA for calling out husband’s behavior

Insecurities and social media obsession can harm even happy marriages

Therapy or divorce: options for dealing with an incel husband

Marriage to an incel? Time to hit the road

Stand your ground and advocate for future you.

Standing up to gaslighting and misogyny. Bullying not recommended though

Ignoring red flags in a relationship can lead to problems

Red flag alert! Suggests therapy and social media break.

Alpha man influencer vs. clown husband

One commenter shares their experience with a similar man online

Society’s obsession with influencers is a cancer. NTA.

Supportive comment agrees with NTA verdict, predicts worsening behavior.

User criticizes husband’s obsession with green lines and influencers.

Couple advised to openly communicate insecurities and re-assure each other

Marriage to an incel follower, NTA but things won’t improve

User defends husband’s mental state, clarifies meaning of ‘incel’.

Red flag alert! Gaslighting is a serious issue. Stay safe.

Honesty is key, basic respect is a must

Defending against unfair labeling using logic.

Leave him. You deserve a partner who meets you at your level.

Proud husband rejects incel label, prioritizes wife’s happiness

Real men want their women to feel powerful and strong

A divisive comment with no replies. Best to ignore it.
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Defending simping for your partner and calling out toxic masculinity

Embracing the simp life: NTA for leaning towards your lady
