Picture this: a sunny day by the pool, a young woman relaxing, and then a conversation that turns everything upside down. Our heroine (22F) was simply enjoying a week-long stay with her sister (25F) and brother-in-law (39M), when a casual chat took a turn for the worse. Here’s the juicy tale of family drama, ageism, and a heated argument that left everyone choosing sides. Let’s dive in, shall we? ♀️
The Unwanted Guest
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Family’s Golden Boy
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Poolside Chit-Chat ♀️
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Unsolicited Advice
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R**e Remarks
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The Fiery Retort
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The Sister Steps In
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The Ignored Explanation ♀️
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The Exit
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Family Fallout
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The Pressure Mounts
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Mom’s Manipulation
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Sister’s Sermon ️
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The Final Accusation
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Caught in the Crossfire: A Family Divided
In a whirlwind of poolside drama, our heroine found herself at odds with her family, all thanks to a conversation gone wrong. After her brother-in-law’s unsolicited advice about ‘settling down’ while she’s ‘young and fresh’, she retaliated with a fiery retort about his ‘old man noises’. This sparked a family feud, with everyone demanding an apology from her. Despite the pressure, she stood her ground, refusing to bow down to their demands. But the question remains, who’s really in the wrong here? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA: BIL’s ageist comment sparks a fiery discussion on relationships
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NTA. Guy objectifies women and patronizes, even suggesting having kids.

NTA! Your family is toxic and enabling a predator.

NTA, hold out until sister discovers his affair

NTA but f**k your family! Cut ties and move on.

“NTA. His creepy comments about your body make me uncomfortable too.”

Hilarious response shuts down misogynist BIL, old age camaraderie

NTA. Old man’s noise problem has an expiration date! ⏳

Age ain’t nothing but a number… and a potential love triangle!
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NTA. Savage clapback to a disrespectful old misogynist dumbass!

NTA. Everyone owes you an apology for not supporting you!

Sister’s husband insulted OP, wants apology. Boundaries, dating life

NTA. Family drama, gold digger accusations, and manipulation. Drama alert!

NTA stands up to BIL’s ridiculous behavior, gets unwanted attention

“Saggy man b***s” comeback shuts down ageist BF
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Hilarious and relatable comment about ‘old man noises’ and aging

NTA. Challenging sexist views with a powerful counter-question!

NTA. Sister’s gonna get dumped for a ‘newer model’ soon

NTA! Exposing a misogynist dating your sister. Ageism s***s!

Money talks, but so does OP’s right to speak up!

Shut him down with sass! You go, girl! ♀️

“Put some babies in you” vs “Young and fresh” Concerning encounter! NTA

OP stands up against disrespectful comments from family.

Standing up for yourself and hoping for family support ❤️

NTA: Don’t apologize to the predator, apologize to your sister

Accusations of misogyny and potential cheating spark heated debate.
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Last Updated on October 9, 2023 by Diply Social Team