We all have that one friend who thinks they’re the world’s best therapist, right? Well, meet Thomas, a college buddy who’s more interested in giving unsolicited advice than actually listening. His friends have learned to avoid discussing sensitive topics around him, but what happens when Thomas’s new girlfriend enters the picture? Let’s just say, things take an unexpected turn when she starts joining their ‘gossip’ sessions.
Meet Thomas: The ‘Therapist’ Friend

Thomas’s Therapeutic Misadventures

The Group’s Secret Strategy

Enter the Girlfriend

The Unexpected Snitch!

The Unwanted Revelation

The Group’s New Strategy ️♀️

Thomas’s Sneaky Attempts

The Group’s Dilemma

The Unresolved Issues with Thomas ♀️

The Final Verdict ️

The Unraveling of a Friendship Group: Trust, Secrets, and a Snitch!
In a twist of events, Thomas’s girlfriend spills the beans, revealing the group’s secret conversations to him. This leads to a shift in dynamics, with the group now resorting to silence and phone-scrolling whenever she’s around. But the question remains: Is Thomas’s sneaky attempts to uncover their secrets justified, or is the group right in wanting to keep their sensitive discussions private? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA: Excluding a friend who lacks empathy, but GF situation messy

“YTA. It’s ridiculous to assume she wouldn’t clue him in. “

NTA. Friend doesn’t listen, GF snitches. No more trust.

“YTA – Communication is key! Don’t expect mind reading abilities. “

Gf spills secrets, friends upset. Should she be excluded?

Thomas’s girlfriend snitched, causing a messy friend group dynamic. ESH.

ESH. Excluding Thomas from conversations while he’s there.

“Seriously, how old are y’all!? Sneaky behavior. YTA “

Loyalties, scheming, and acting 12. ESH, geez!

“YTA for excluding his gf. You can’t expect her silence.”

Facing soap-opera-level complications like a boss!

YTA accused of being a hypocrite for gossiping behind backs

YTA: Couples talk and share, she didn’t snitch, wake up!

Passive aggressive friends? YTA gets called out.

YTA for using ‘ab’ instead of ‘about’, frustrating to read

Thomas’s girlfriend snitches on friends, causing drama. ESH.
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Apologize to the gf and treat her better, YTA!

Gossiping gone wrong! YTA for expecting her to keep secrets

Hypocrites and toxicity? Communication breakdown leads to chaos!

YTA for gossiping and being passive aggressive.

Discussing behind someone’s back can make people self-conscious

Changing the topic when your friend leaves? YTA!

Expecting her to keep secrets? YTA! Annoying

INFO: Junior high school drama with a ‘logic’ friend and mind-reading girlfriend?

You handled it well! NTA, don’t tell him anything uncomfortable.

NTA for setting boundaries with friends, but have you communicated?

Expecting silence from his girlfriend? YTA. Reality check needed!

Last Updated on September 22, 2023 by Diply Social Team