When Mother-In-Law Doesn’t Understand ‘No’: A Tale of Boundaries Crossed

We’ve all had those days when we’re feeling under the weather, and the last thing we want is unexpected visitors. Now, imagine that visitor is your extroverted mother-in-law, and you’re suffering from one of the worst migraines of your life. Sounds like a recipe for disaster, right? Well, that’s exactly what happened to one woman who just wanted to lie in the dark until her pain subsided. Let’s dive into this dramatic tale of boundaries being crossed and the fallout that ensued.

The Unstoppable Force: Mother-In-Law

The Immovable Object: Migraine

The Unwanted Visit

The Ignored Request

The Unwanted Arrival ️

The Uninvited Guest

The Aftermath ️

The Fallout

The Almost Shoe-Puking Incident

A Migraine, A Mother-In-Law, and A Misunderstanding: The Aftermath ️

After enduring a migraine, an unwanted visit, and a series of ignored requests, our heroine finally stood up for herself. She voiced her concerns to her partner about his mother’s inability to respect boundaries, leading to a heated conversation. Now, the mother-in-law feels offended and thinks she’s disliked. This tale of crossed boundaries and miscommunication has left everyone in a whirlwind of emotions. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️‍♀️

NTA. Boundaries crossed. Partner supports. MIL offended. Be truthful.

NTA: MIL ignores boundaries, OP’s mom would’ve waited for birthday card

NTA. Let her be offended. She won’t die.

Migraine sufferers unite! It’s hard for others to understand.

“MIL dear, you seem to have difficulty accepting what I say, so son and I have decided together that we need to **manage** you with a different approach.”

Setting boundaries with a vomit threat, NTA takes charge!

Migraine sufferers unite! NTA, educate your MIL about the agony

NTA- Set clear boundaries and ignore her, her emotions aren’t your responsibility

Setting boundaries with your mother-in-law can be a challenge

NTA, but did you clearly say “No” to your MIL?

Migraines are awful, and she clearly doesn’t understand ‘no’

Setting boundaries with MIL and explaining the severity of migraines

Sleeping in the closet to escape mother-in-law’s intrusions

Setting boundaries with mother-in-law: better late than never

“NTA. As a fellow migraine sufferer, set clear boundaries “

Empathy for OP’s migraine struggle and support for setting boundaries

NTA. Boundaries crossed by mother-in-law, partner finally steps in

MIL ignores ‘no’ and boundaries. Time for a strict speech!

NTA for setting boundaries, but NAH for suggesting direct conversation.

NTA. Setting boundaries with difficult mother-in-law

Setting boundaries with pushy mother-in-law. Good for you!

NTA. Puking on her: the ultimate lesson in setting boundaries

Migraine sufferer suggests throwing up on mother-in-law’s shoes.

Setting boundaries with a rude mother-in-law. Need a doorbell?

Accused of lying about migraine, MIL thinks you’re an alcoholic

“NTA. Ignorant & selfish MIL crossed boundaries. Text hubby for intervention. “

Setting boundaries with an oblivious mother-in-law during illness

Vomiting at the door to show her how inappropriate? NTA ‍♀️

Setting boundaries is crucial. Your mother-in-law crossed a line.

NTA Petty revenge fantasies against intrusive mother-in-law.

NTA, migraines are awful. Try plain broth for stomach relief

NTA. Next time throw up on her.

Setting boundaries with mother-in-law, but training her to disrespect you

NTA. Migraine struggles and remedies shared. Seek professional help.

NTA – MIL blames OP, take time, low contact. Savage Mediterranean moms!

NTA. MIL constantly disrespects boundaries, guilt-trips. Partner struggles to enforce.

NTA. Seek professional help if needed

Handling a boundary-crossing mother-in-law like a boss!

Life-saving advice: ER visit, meds, neurologist. You’re NTA

Mother-in-law crosses boundaries, ignores health concerns

Teaching 3-year-olds respect: MIL’s lucky her shoes remain intact

NTA. She can suck it

Migraines and revenge: Throwing up on idiots from a distance

NTA. Revenge on mother-in-law’s shoes

Setting boundaries with a clueless mother-in-law

MIL crosses boundaries, causes pain. NTA deserves apology

Setting boundaries with the mother-in-law: NTA, stand your ground!

NTA. Stand up to your mother-in-law and set boundaries.

When boundaries are crossed, sometimes drastic measures are necessary

NTA, but MiL could have coordinated with your mom for gift

NTA. MIL needs a hard no and better boundaries

Mother-in-law’s narcissistic behavior crosses boundaries. NTA for setting limits.

Pushy MIL plays victim, but husband supports NTA OP

“Husband, listen to your wife and respect her mother’s boundaries.”

Setting boundaries with an intrusive mother-in-law

Setting boundaries with mother-in-law, not the a**hole

Mother-in-law ignored boundaries and got shut down. NTA!

MIL ignores boundaries during pandemic, gets offended. NTA!

NTA. Set boundaries and use your voice to say no!

MIL lacks boundaries, but OP’s mom is understanding

Handling a difficult mother-in-law with grace and migraines

NTA. Set boundaries to avoid hell with nightmare mother-in-law.

NTA: A vomit-worthy encounter with a clueless mother-in-law

Setting boundaries has consequences, as this MIL discovered!

Setting boundaries with mother-in-law, hope she understands in future

Setting boundaries with a clueless mother-in-law

Standing up to a boundary-crossing mother-in-law with migraines

Throwing up on her shoes might teach her a lesson!

Setting boundaries with an obnoxious mother-in-law, migraine-friendly doorbell options

Assertive response to boundary-crossing mother-in-law. Revenge suggestion included.

When boundaries are crossed, sometimes a little rebellion is justified. NTA

Partner stands up to MIL’s unkind behavior. Boundaries matter

MIL ignores boundaries, triggers migraine attack. NTA suffers silently

Assertiveness is key when dealing with boundary-crossing in-laws!

Mother-in-law needs a reality check! NTA for setting boundaries