We all have that one friend who’s head over heels in love, right? But what happens when that love story involves a hefty trust fund, a questionable proposal, and a concerned friend? Meet Katy, a trust fund heiress, and her boyfriend John, an aspiring ‘hydroponic farmer’. When John proposes without a ring or any fanfare, Katy’s lawyer friend senses something fishy. She suggests a prenup, but Katy isn’t having it. Now, their friendship hangs in the balance. Let’s dive into this tangled web of love, money, and friendship.
Meet Katy and John: Love or Money?

John’s Big Dreams: Engineer to Hydroponic Farmer

The Trust Fund: Strings Attached

The Proposal: No Ring, No Romance ❌

The Prenup Suggestion: A Friendship on the Rocks

The Fallout: Silence and Stubbornness

The Update: A Conversation and a Decision ️

The Conclusion: A Friend, Not a Lawyer

Friendship, Love, and Money: A Complex Cocktail
In a whirlwind of love, trust funds, and prenups, Katy and her lawyer friend find their friendship tested. Despite her friend’s concerns, Katy remains steadfast in her belief that John, her boyfriend, is not after her money. With no ring, no romance, and a sudden interest in her trust fund, it’s hard not to question John’s intentions. But Katy is in love, and sometimes, love blinds us to reality. As for her friend, she’s decided to step back, not as a lawyer, but as a friend, ready to support Katy no matter what. Let’s see how the internet feels about this tangled tale of love, money, and friendship.
NTA. He’s just using her for her money . She should sign a prenup.
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NTA: She’s happy being used, but you can’t help her.

NTA. Lawyer advises OP to be honest and supportive to friend

NTA. Great advice! You’re a good friend and lawyer

NTA – Give advice, apologize, and let her make her choice

Offering unsolicited advice can go really well or really badly

NTA. Prenups are vital for financial imbalance. Lawyer up �

Friend looks out for best interests, predicts future fallout

NTA but apologize for not disclosing your legal expertise �

“ESH. You need to be outside validation of her worth.”

Honesty is key, even if it’s not what they want to hear.

Anonymous tip to trust manager? That’s a clever move!
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NTA. Sensible advice given. Be ready to help with divorce.
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Engaging with empathy: NTA lawyer advises on prenup approach

NTA. Prenups are prudent and friends should watch out

NTA, friend vulnerable to emotional abuse. Hope she realizes soon

Katy’s hard lesson: NTA, but she’ll learn the expensive way.

NTA: Friend ignoring red flags, you’re better off cutting ties
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NTA. Run for the hills or get a prenup!

Age question answered: Katy is 37, John is 34.

Leave it be, she’s in the rose tinted glasses stage.
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Respecting boundaries: Supporting without controlling.

NTA. Prenups: Love, Money, and Insanity collide. Protect yourself wisely!

NTA, warned friend about losing inheritance to ‘soulmate’, her choice.

NTA but John is. She’s in deep and won’t listen.

NTA warns woman about potential financial ruin. Hard lessons ahead.

Show her the post and protect her inheritance!

Smart move to protect assets in case of divorce

NTA. Logical vs. emotional: A lesson in friendship and boundaries.

Love, money, and tears: When reason fails in relationships

Engaging comment suggests intervention for friend’s impending financial disaster.

Protect your friend’s happiness. Have a calm conversation about prenups

NAH for expressing concern, but trust that things will work out

NTA – Friend warns about manipulative partner draining trust fund

NTA. Run fast and far or get a prenup.

Uncover his secrets ️♀️ and expose his hidden agenda!

Money can’t buy love, but it can attract some gold diggers

NTA and her reaction is because she knows you’re right.

Katy’s doomed fate: NTA, she’s in for a r**e awakening

NTA. Send her articles on lovebombing and future faking.
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Katy’s questionable decisions are raising some eyebrows

NTA: You warned her, now sit back and watch the chaos

NTA: A cautionary tale of love, money, and immaturity.
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Friendship loyalty tested: NTA, but is revenge the answer?

Walking bankruptcy waiting to happen

Wake her up! Share this post and show her the truth! NTA

Protect your assets! Get a prenup and avoid messy divorces!
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Prenups: The key to a successful and flexible marriage

Empathetic advice on repairing a strained relationship with delicate words.

NTA warns girl about potential divorce and financial loss.

Prenups for all! Protecting love and assets, no shady behavior.

Looking out for your girl’s best interests

Financial advisor could protect her inheritance from random guy.

NTA. Shady situation, friend in denial. Prenups are crucial
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Apologize for unsolicited advice or risk being an a**hole
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Suggesting a prenup? NTA, but be ready for the trainwreck
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Supportive advice: Let her make her own choices

Apologize to Katy to protect her money, but downplay the situation.

NTA. Prenups are crucial. Red flags abound. Support your friend

NTA: You warned her, now be there for her when needed.

Trust fund, prenup, attorney: a recipe for disaster!

Take control of your prenup and protect your assets!

Not the a**hole. Tell us more about this juicy drama!

Not the a**hole. Tell us more about this juicy drama!
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Not the a**hole. What happened? Tell us your story!

NTA or YTA? Mind your own business or give your opinion?

“We want prenup! We want prenup!” – A confident NTA

Not the a**hole, but what happened? Tell us more!

Last Updated on December 16, 2023 by Diply Social Team