Ever had a house guest who overstayed their welcome? Well, one woman had not just one, but five guests who turned a weekend visit into a 10-day stay, without her consent! As if that wasn’t enough, one of the guests, a stranger to the host, took it upon herself to rearrange the entire house while everyone else was out. Let’s dive into this story of unexpected visitors, unsolicited redecoration, and the drama that ensued.
The Unexpected Long Stay

The Stranger Among Friends

The Room Arrangement Drama ️

The Unwanted Home Makeover

The Tension Builds Up

The Uncomfortable Realization

The Final Decision

The Unforgivable Act

The Final Verdict ️

The Tale of the Unruly House Guests: A Drama Unfolds
What was supposed to be a fun weekend with friends turned into a 10-day nightmare for our hostess. One of the guests, a stranger to her, not only overstayed her welcome but also took it upon herself to redecorate the house without permission. The tension escalated, leading to an uncomfortable atmosphere. The last straw was discovering illegal substances in her home, brought by her best friend. The hostess decided to ask everyone to leave, marking an end to this dramatic episode. Let’s delve into the internet’s reactions to this intriguing story.
NTA! Your best friend overstayed, redecorated, and violated boundaries!

NTA – Stand up for yourself and kick them out!

“NTA
“Rearranged” = she was nosey and did a little snooping and just moved things to cover this up.
I don’t know about leaving someone at my home when I’m not there AND I don’t know them.
Also guests should be happy with what they get (the three bedrooms).
Don’t extend that vacation beyond what you were given notice for. Let them rent a hotel.” – A host’s nightmare!
NTA: Overstaying guests are never a good idea

“Weekend” turned into a whole week? Ben Franklin has thoughts!

OP’s entitled guest overstays and rearranges their house without permission!
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NTA – Your house, your rules! Don’t let them take advantage!

“NTA. Your house, your rules. Who rearranges someone else’s house? “

NTA. Friends rearranged furniture without permission. Watch out for missing items!
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NTA: Your home, your rules. They can find a hotel

NTA, confront your friend about the uncomfortable situation
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Best friend takes advantage of you. Time to end it!

“NTA. Unappreciative friend and her friend ‘x’ are straight up disrespectful! “

Cleaning or rearranging? The guest’s intentions are questioned.

NTA for being annoyed, but is it possible ‘X’ had good intentions?

Friend taking advantage? Setting boundaries is a struggle.

Kick them out and take back control of your house!
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Kick them out! You’re definitely not the a**hole here!
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“NTA. Make it clear that your hospitality has been abused.”

NTA. Guest cleaning turns into unwanted redecorating. Kick them out!

NTA. You’re NOT being uptight. They’re lucky you haven’t kicked them out yet!

“Best friend” puts OP in an awkward position. Not cool.

“NTA It’s time you advocated for yourself. Your issue is with your best friend for deceiving you over their intentions. Just inform her you agreed to let them stay for the weekend and that’s it.”

Monica redecorates without permission? NTA!

Cleaning trauma from a stranger. Unwanted guests redecorate horrors!

Setting boundaries with house guests and gracefully ending the friendship.

Best friend lied, trashed house, blamed OP. Friendship over?

NTA, but title could be misleading. Friend ignores main issues
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Best friend should handle it, not OP. NTA.
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Best friends don’t redecorate without permission! NTA!

Questioning the friendship after unwanted redecorating?

NTA, kick them out or charge them. Free hotel? Insane!

NTA. Kick them out and get a hotel!

Ex’s new girlfriend overstays welcome and redecorates without permission!

Best friend’s disrespectful behavior and boundary issues. Time for talk.

Friend brings unwanted guests and doesn’t respect boundaries. NTA.

Find a new best friend! She sucks.

NTA. Set boundaries and kick out disrespectful ‘best friend’.

Not the a**hole. No explanation needed.
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NTA. Overstaying guests? Time to redecorate with *your* permission!
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“Fish and visitors smell in three days”

Friend’s deception causes tension over length of stay. NTA.

NTA but your ‘friend’ and HER guests are.

Confusing comment with no replies.

NTA: Unwanted guests, invasion of privacy, and crossed boundaries!

Call out your friend for being a freeloader!

Stand up for yourself and find better friends.

NTA: Outrageously entitled friends redecorate without permission. Apology deserved.

Friend redecorates without permission, you’re NTA. Time for answers!

Protect your space! No one has the right to redecorate!

Friend’s overstay and redecoration without permission is a major AH move!

OP is NTA, but should have set boundaries from the start.

NTA: Terrible guest redecorates without permission, incredibly inconsiderate friend.

Set boundaries and kick out the redecorating a**hole!

NTA, but friend overstepped boundaries. Misunderstanding on cleaning intentions. Considered rude.

Overstaying house guests? NTA! Rude friends need boundaries

NTA! Send them a bill for overstaying and violating your space!

Friend’s mistake, friend should fix it. Not a good friend.

Friend lied about one-day stay, X is an entitled AH

NTA: Kick out the manipulative house guests immediately!

Dealing with unwanted redecorating: a**hole house guests and sun-blocking curtains

Best friend overstays, redecorates without permission. Stand up for yourself! NTA

NTA: Kick them out and protect your sanctuary!

NTA. Best friend using you, crossed boundaries. Get a hotel.

Stand up for yourself and set boundaries in your own home!
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Guests should be grateful and respectful. You’re NTA (not the a**hole)!

NTA: Kick them out! They’ve overstayed their welcome
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Catch 22: Guests tidied up, but would you prefer their mess?

When house guests take over your home without permission

Girls can be complicated, but not the a**hole in this case!

NTA. Set boundaries and let them choose: suck it up or hotel.

NTA: Sunday brunch and eviction for overstaying house guests!

Friend invited herself and lied about duration. NTA.

Boundary stomping house guests redecorate without permission. NTA!

Overstaying sister redecorates without permission, leaving lasting guilt.

ESH – Overstayed welcome, but polite cleaning made a good impression
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NTA. Stress clean, but this is still weird. They need to go.
