We all know that one friend – the one who’s as messy as a tornado in a thrift store. They’re our best friend, but their cleanliness skills are… questionable, to say the least. But what happens when this friend is on the hunt for a roommate and asks for an honest assessment of their cleanliness? Well, one 18-year-old found herself in this exact situation, and her response has sparked a heated debate. Let’s dive into the story.
The Roommate Hunt Begins ️♀️

The Struggles of a College Student

A Ray of Hope

The Unexpected Phone Call

The Brutal Honesty Unleashed

The Harsh Reality

The Unexpected Twist

The Fallout

The Unfortunate Reveal

The Guilt Sets In

A Brutal Honesty Bombshell
In a tale of friendship, honesty, and a disastrous roommate hunt, an 18-year-old girl finds herself in hot water after her brutally honest assessment of her best friend’s cleanliness. The friend, known as ‘T’, was on a call with a potential roommate when she asked for an honest opinion. Little did she know, her friend was about to drop a truth bomb that would blow up her chances of securing the room. The fallout was swift and severe, leading to a heated text exchange and a lost opportunity. Let’s see how the internet reacted to this messy situation…
NTA – Honest roommate hunt gone wrong

NTA. Honesty backfires when merged call reveals private conversations

Friend puts you on the spot and blames you unfairly

NTA. Blind sided roommate plays silly games and wins silly prizes

NTA. Roommate fails to show potential roommate pictures of space

“NTA for being honest, but a little intro would’ve helped.”

Friend broke a major rule, NTA for being upset

An ESH situation with toxic friendship dynamics, time for a sincere conversation

Self-inflicted fail. Not the a**hole in this roommate hunt.

Roommate horror story: messy, blames others, poor choices. NTA!

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

ESH – Brutal honesty vs. hurtful language: a friendship dilemma ♀️

“Cleaning expectations: normal or neat freak?”
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INFO: Was the secret character reference her idea or her potential roommates’? That’s how her assholery would be defined for me. She wouldn’t be an a-hole if the other girl said she wanted a reference this way and put your friend on the spot, and she would be if she could have warned you about it and didn’t.

Honesty is the best policy, even when you’re caught off-guard!

Honesty prevails! You’re not the a**hole for speaking truth.

When honesty goes wrong, friendships can be blindsided. NTA

ESH- Roommate hunt gone wrong, brutally honest or just rude?

Did you check her living conditions? 16-year-olds can be messy ♀️

“Y(kinda)TA. Honesty without tact is just being an AH “

Honesty prevails! NTA for being upfront, she crossed the line

Surprise eavesdropping during reference check leads to unexpected drama!

Communication breakdown: roommate fails to give heads up during call

NTA, roommate fails to provide context

NTA for calling out roommate’s sneaky prank. Potential disaster avoided!

NTA. Honest roommate call reveals hidden presence.
