When ‘Guys Night Out’ Turns Into a Battle of the Sexes

Ever felt like you’re on the outside looking in? Meet our friend here, let’s call her ‘Miss Outcast’. She’s found herself in a bit of a pickle. Her boyfriend, ‘Mr. Guys Night’, and their shared friend group have started a tradition of ‘guys night out’. Sounds harmless, right? But what if these nights are the only time she gets to hang out with her friends? And what if ‘Mr. Guys Night’ is not just any friend, but her boyfriend? Let’s dive into this drama-filled saga.

A Tale of Friends, Love, and ‘Guys Night Out’

The Birth of ‘Guys Night’

The Loneliness of Being Left Out

The Inside Jokes That Sting

The Breaking Point

The Fallout ️

The Dilemma: To Apologize or Not? ‍♀️

A Clarification

The Scheduling Conflict ️

The Final Straw

A ‘Guys Night’ That Ignited a Firestorm ️

In a nutshell, ‘Miss Outcast’ is feeling sidelined and isolated as her boyfriend, ‘Mr. Guys Night’, and their shared friend group enjoy their ‘guys nights’ without her. These nights, unfortunately, coincide with the only day she has to socialize. The situation escalated when she confronted ‘Mr. Guys Night’ about her feelings, leading to a heated argument and name-calling. Now, she’s left wondering if she should apologize, while the other girls in the group stand by her side. Let’s see what the internet thinks about this tangled web of friendships, relationships, and gender-based outings. ️

NTA and misunderstood, but some people here are being assholes.

ESH but only slightly

This is just an awful situation all around.

NTA: Friends and boyfriend should be more considerate of your time

NAH, but she feels left out and undervalued

YTA. Friends vs. Exclusion: A battle of loyalty and trust

NTA for being excluded, some guys just want misogynistic ‘guy time’

Time to cut out the bf and find new friends

Engaging comment and update, ESH but NTA according to update

Wanting a night away from your partner is healthy!

NTA.. he sounds like an a** honestly. Your problem is that while you consider the other guys your friends, you are not. You are “just” the girlfriend, even if you knew them first and introduced them. When you break up, and you will, those guys will still be hanging out with him. Not you.

Dump him! You’re not the a**hole.

NTA. Friends and BF disregarding feelings, excluding you.

YTA, try making friends with the other girls

‍♀️ NTA! Battling gender bias in friendships during the pandemic.

Limited Saturdays for ‘Guys Night Out’ causing judgmental comments

OP’s insecurity about ‘guys night out’ sparks insightful comments

“YTA. You’re jealous of your b/f’s guy’s night out. Relax! “

Gender shouldn’t matter when it comes to true friendship.

Commenter calls someone a jerk for being inconsiderate.

Excluded from ‘guys night out’, OP deserves better friends. NTA

YTA for being possessive. Have a girls’ night and chill

NTA, but communicate your feelings. If they dismiss you, reconsider.

YTA. Learn to deal with it without crying and screaming

Excluded from the guys’ group chat for not having a d**k

NTA- Your ‘friends’ and bf are selfish and narrow-minded

Feeling excluded from ‘guys night out’ led to relationship drama

Time to upgrade your friends and your love life!

YTA: Expand your horizons and make new friends outside the group!

Unpopular opinion: Gender-based social groups are outdated and problematic

Supportive comment and hope for better friends and SO

Not the a**hole, but what happened? Share the story!

Suggest a Couple’s Night and change Guys Night to another night.

NTA – No a-hole here. Share your story too!

NTA. Clearly.

Toxic masculinity? Open up about it with the whole group!

Break up with your bf and reclaim your friend group!

NTA: Why segregate when you can celebrate together?

Subreddit judgment on guys night sparks fiery backlash

When your bf’s behavior crosses the line

Annoyed at people going out during the pandemic ESH

“Find new people. This will never work out for you.”

YTA for not letting your bf have guy nights

Boyfriend’s ‘guys night out’ sparks debate, but it’s NAH.