We’ve all been there – a group chat with friends where the banter flows freely. But what happens when the jokes cross the line and become hurtful? In this tale, a young woman finds herself the target of body shaming comments from a friend’s boyfriend. Despite her struggles with trauma and body image, the ‘jokes’ keep coming, until one day she decides enough is enough. But was she right to take action? Or was she just being overly sensitive?
Setting the Stage: A Group Chat Among Friends

Unwelcome Comments Begin

The ‘Jokes’ Continue

The Last Straw

Fallout and Accusations

Questioning the Decision

The Aftermath

Isolation and Concern

A Worrisome Conclusion

A Line Crossed: The Impact of Body Shaming in Friendship
In a close-knit group of friends, one young woman found herself the target of body shaming ‘jokes’ from a friend’s boyfriend. Despite her struggles with trauma and body image, the comments persisted. Finally, she took a stand and removed him from the group chat, sparking a wave of accusations and conflict. Was she right to take action? Or was she just being overly sensitive? As the situation escalates, she finds herself blocked and isolated, raising concerns for her friend’s well-being. Let’s delve into the internet’s perspective on this complex situation.
OP’s friend’s boyfriend threatens breakup over harmless joke

“NTA. Your friend is projecting her upset at being with such an AH onto you. “

NTA. Boyfriend and friend are both asshats.
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NTA. A**hole boyfriend body shames OP, friend takes his side

Friendship tested: NTA, but is there room for understanding?

NTA: Dude needs to learn to apologize

Manipulative boyfriend isolates friend, NTA for kicking him out.

NTA shuts down weight-shaming joke with no-nonsense response

NTA. Patient and understanding, but called out a questionable friendship.

“150 pounds overweight? Wild. NTA. Men controlling women’s bodies.”

Alice’s boyfriend is a complete a**hole. NTA. ♀️

Confusion over weight standards sparks sarcastic comment and reply thread ♀️

Friend’s bf insults OP, friend prioritizes bf’s feelings over OP’s.

NTA. Kicking her for good measure
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NTA, but what’s the f**kery all about?

NTA: Kick him out! Your friend deserves better!

NTA, friends should support you and kick out the offensive guy.

NTA: Body shaming is never okay. Weight doesn’t define worth.

NTA. Dump the prick, she deserves better!

NTA. Be the supportive friend she needs.

Friend defends OP, boyfriend’s ultimatum is ridiculous. Drama ensues.

Surprised bully gets kicked out, NTA stands up for herself

Mike’s immaturity and disrespect for boundaries is appalling.

Confronting a creepy fixation on weight with sass and humor

Support her, but be prepared for a potential escape plan. NTA

Standing up against body shaming and toxic relationships. ❤️

NTA – Ditch the toxic boyfriend and embrace self-love!

Friendship tested: NTA stands up against body shaming bully
